Theres this girl that keeps on flirtin with my bf and I cant do nothin about it I trust him and everythin but that whore has a bf and she FLIRTS WITH MY MAN and I dont know wat to do should I tell her off or wat ???Shes my bfs friend well theres two girls that keep on flirtin with him and rubbin on his arm and stuff and both of them are his girl frinds but it makes me mad and he knows it and he tries to aviod it but they keep doin it even if they know hes going out with me wat should I do to make these girls stop???
2007-10-03 05:10:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't be jealous. just think of it this way. he is your boyfriend and not hers.
but i would take him a side if it bothers you explain it to him and them he needs to take care of it himself. but there is nothing you can really do. he needs too do it.
if he really likes you he will do something about it. some girls just have no respect when it comes too other girls boyfriends.
but make it clear too him that this needs too stop.
2007-10-03 05:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider demeanor and the way a man or woman raise's oneself has extra energy than the garments one wears. The apparel does not make the person seem just right, the man makes the garb seem good. LOL. At the least, that is how I suppose about myself. Cocky and confidence may also be super horny to a lady should you elevate yourself correct. It may also be a way of pissing a lady off with annoyance, I think. I feel when you've got your interior sport happening that you will elevate yourself with quiet self assurance without over-bearing cockyness, which means that you are not going to give a crap about wether the lady over there together with her man notices or no longer. If your iner recreation is right, your confidence just isn't going to be determined by using her gaze or something else from her. Too many girls in this world to need to stand there and sweetness "is this sublime into me..?" next..!
2016-08-04 18:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid those girls but if your bf really can't I suggest you to be tricky. Don't show them that you are affected because flirts always want to have fun and doesn't care whether they are hurting someone so don't give them the privelage to hurt you. They are just insecure because no guys would take them seriously and have them as gf. Try to be sweet to your guy and rub on his arm so that those flirt wouldn't have a chance. Talk to your bf about this issue if he can't do something about it and if he can solve this issue as a man then give him an ultimatum. You might be trying to protect him but for all you know he likes those flirts too. Try to assess your guy's past too. Is he a flirt too? that's why those girls are not hesitating to flirt with him? If he is really a loyal bf then lets get those girls. Um do you have single guy friends? Try to set those girls to those guys haha give those girls single guys who are very much allowed to flirt back at them :)
2007-10-03 05:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Raine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first, be a little more classy - you write like trailer trash.
Second you don't own this guy - so stop calling him "your man" it sounds like you want him around to wear like jewelry or something.
Third, get a life of your own. BF is not the end all and be all of the universe.
Fourth, He's always going to have friends who happen to be girls. Get over it.
Fifth and most important - talk with BF. Tell him that you feel uncomfortable and threatened when he allows other girls to paw over him. Then it's up to HIM to put a stop to it.
If he doesn't - then that says a lot about how he truly feels about you, doesn't it.
2007-10-03 05:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a friend who had the same situation. Problem was, the idiot bf was flattered and never did anything about it so she eventually moved on to a better, stronger man.
It's up to your bf, now. If he really loves you and wants to be in this relationship, he will put a stop to it and stop being around these ho bags. If he keeps putting himself in that situation, I would find a better bf.
Good luck!
2007-10-03 05:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by ga.peach67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her to stop talking to him is going to be worse because she will do it more in purpose to make you jealous , I guess that's probably what she wants . Remember that the one that needs to stop is your boyfriend , tell him that you don't feel comfortable when she is around him and flirts and that this might bring him problems with the girl's boyfriend and you don't want anything like that for him.
2007-10-03 05:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your boyfriend has no respect for you..
If these girls are causing confusion in your relationship then he should be man enough to avoid them without you having to nag him. If he doesn't, then you know he likes it and he is not thinking of how it is infecting and harming your relationship.
2007-10-03 05:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless it was YOUR friends who are flirting with him you can't do anything. They are his friends and he has to be the one to tell them to stop. If he hasn't done that yet- he obviously likes the attention and if you trust him you just have to deal with it.
2007-10-03 08:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by missgabbieh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to your BF to set limits- if he respects you, he'll let these girls know they've got to back off.
2007-10-03 05:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell em to back off he is ur man
2007-10-03 05:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋