whats on his mind? he wants me to be the way he want.
he is like do this or do that...else get out of th ehouse because u live in my house. what is he?
2007-10-03 06:02:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In that case you said your married. Tell him he can get the hell out. Cause what's his is also yours. He can't put you out no more than you can put him out. Then again he keeps telling you to leave cause he figures you want. Hell, one day take him up on his offer. See how long he lasts. Even if you just go over to a friends house.
2007-10-03 07:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is comical. Everyone here is saying your man is abusive or controlling because he isn't happy with you and wants you to leave.
Honestly there is not enough information to run with here, but the tell is that your husband has a healthy sexual appetite, yet you are not appealing to him for some reason. It could be any one of several reasons. He even goes as far as to refuse to sleep with you, but tells you he will with other women after your divorce.
Is there a trust issue because of infidelity? Have you let yourself go? What does he want you to be that you aren't willing to be? Clearly he isn't cheating or you would have said that he was sleeping with someone else.
Your choice of words paints a very dark picture of him. The thing I keep coming back to is that every divorce happens because of irreconsilable differences. Meaning you two have different opinions,
Your words "he wants me to be the way he wants" are purposely vague. Maybe he is out of line, or maybe you are. You don't share enough info for anyone to determine wich one of you is being irrational.
The reality is that you could say these same things if you are a housewife (with no outside job) and you don't cook, clean, shop, or take care of yourself. It is reasonable for him to be frustrated with you if that is the case. OR perhaps he is an a$$hat and wants to micromanage everything about you for completely illogical reasons.
2007-10-03 14:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by DH1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An a--hoe, but thats OK, leave, there's a Prince waiting for you!! At least thats what happened to us!! Her x threw & 2 kids to the curb!!! I met her 11 months later!! that was 15 years ago, I have a wonderful wife, and 2 extra kids(adluts now), life is good!! Pay attention, just leave, and oh yea, take his $$$$$with you too!!
2007-10-03 14:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is controling! So find somewhere to go and next time he says it go. Why live in an unhappy situation. My money is on him going crazy cause his threats backfired. Play your card right. GL
2007-10-03 14:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by redsky_too_nite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are legally married to this person is your name on the house apartment he can not throw you out. if you don't do what he wants he has control issues, That's why you should be sure before you say i do. cannot tell you what to do it is up to you.
best of luck
2007-10-03 19:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abusive and very controlling maybe you should check things out and get the hell out of there fast cause worse things could happen to you
2007-10-03 14:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by monalisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently he feels he is the ruler of the roost...either accept this or move on -- only u can decide
2007-10-03 14:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abusive. Document & get a lawyer.
2007-10-03 13:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Saphira 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why does your husband want me to leave home?
2007-10-03 15:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by oldtomato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋