Hey everyone ii need yur help
well i have a boy friend but ii dont knoww if i should get off with him 4 the 1st time. and everyone is forsing me 2
BUT iim only 13 !! x But ii wanna get off with him but im scared
HEELPP MEE !!
2007-10-03 07:13:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it... save your virginity for someone you LOVE... and when you are older.. honey 13 is to young for sex.. you don't even know what it's about yet...
Ignore the peer pressure... live about the influence!
2007-10-03 07:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur really young and i dont know if ur ready. no body does. only u know. dont let other people pressure u into doin somethin u arent ready for. if he is a true boyfreind he will stick around and wait until u r ready. im 17 and a virgin and ive been with my bf for 5 months. we have came close but im just not ready and he respects that. he is waitn for me to be ready because he really loves me and doesnt wanna hurt me. If u do think u r ready make sure u r in love and make sure u use protection. be safe. u never know who else he has been with. u make sure that u worry about urself. dont let him pressure u into anything.
2007-10-03 07:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by ms. Wilder part II 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha your only 13. Calm down a bit. Trust me you have plenty of time to start worrying about a guy but it's your life so do what you want and don't be scared. What is there to be scared about? Oh wait... You mean S-E-X?... yeah wait another five years at least hun.
2007-10-03 07:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, then don't do it. Tell everyone to back off. Don't give into their peer pressure.
And besides that point, you are only 13! Don't rush into anything that you do not want to do. Not now. Not ever.
2007-10-03 07:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't do anything you will regret. You still have your whole life ahead of you. When its the right time it will happen, if your scared about it then that is a sign that you aren't quite ready for it yet. It is a big step to take!!
2007-10-03 07:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by KRDB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, lil' un!
So, if I said Yes, you should.....would that be kinda like forcing you to? What other people think you should do doesn't matter!!
Your 13 years old!!!! that, only 4,764 days old!
NO! NO! NO! Getting off! Try getting real!
2007-10-03 07:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said so yourself, you're only 13, don't you want to wait for a while first? grow up some more before you do what they're forcing you to do? there's a lot of time in the world hun, you won't run out of it! ;)
2007-10-03 07:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only thirteen, you shouldn't be thinking about "getting off" at all...let alone with your boyfriend also of which you are too young to have. Does your mother know what your doing?
2007-10-03 07:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young and the fact that you're afraid tells me that you are too immature and young to be dealing with "grown up" situations
Wait until youre older and legal and not afraid...
Go do some homework
2007-10-03 07:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waite love will hit you over and over he is temporary(I know U think it is love) HIV is a death sentence!!!! look at the statistic of people your age and pregnancy. If you arnt protected with the pill and condoms dont do it
2007-10-03 07:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋