Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

...the more repulsive her personality is.In other words they are only attractive on the outside and use their beauty to lead men up the garden path and make fools of them for some kind of power trip.Are plain women more faithful because they are thankful to have found a partner?

2007-10-03 03:52:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you know if cheaters change or what would make them change if they do and is it from disrespect for the opposite sex that they are able to do it, or what? Why do cheaters cheat?

2007-10-03 03:51:48 · 32 answers · asked by scsspace 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy & I had a casual relationship for over a year until he moved back home for a job transfer. We stayed in contact but then stopped after he found a girl in his town, so I stopped calling all together. 4 months later he calls me & told me he broke up that girl, saying she wasn't as cool as me, etc. Then he said something to the effect "why you want me to marry you?" which struck me as odd, but it peaked my interest. Anyway, we are seeing each other this weekend after being apart for a year, and now he calls more often, answers his phone, treats me w/more respect, so I can see he's making an effort at something. I was just talking to him & he asked if I had something "lingerie" to wear, which he knows I wear cute undies, but something more like someone would wear for a more romantic setting. But he's never been like that to suggest that, so is he hinting at something? He was also boasting about this hotel he got us, so I'm just curious about this. What do you think?

2007-10-03 03:50:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Having sex without feelings.... why is it so easy for them?

2007-10-03 03:47:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, aren't you supposed to depend on each other throughout your relationship? If not, why bother being in one?

I'm interested in your thoughts...thanks!

2007-10-03 03:46:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are divorced. Almost every couple that I know in my family, of my friends etc. have contemplated divorce, have been cheated on, or are extremely unhappy. Is marriage worth it? Are we as humans just not programmed for monogomy?

2007-10-03 03:45:41 · 32 answers · asked by Crystal D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you wear PVC uniforms for your partner?

i.e. Nurse, Maid etc

2007-10-03 03:44:08 · 32 answers · asked by Sc00ter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 03:41:57 · 8 answers · asked by Space Monkey 2 in Singles & Dating

Please-mostly Canadian teenagers answer and give reasons why. I need at least 20 people to answer!!!

2007-10-03 03:41:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-03 03:40:59 · 37 answers · asked by Greywolf 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Yea, I'm in a problem, my mother in law live with us -.- ... and i never could make something awesome for my husband, (you know, romantic dinners, sexy dance, blah blah)... his birthday is coming up, and i want to do something special for him, i just had a baby and I'm not working, so I'm broke... What can i do? =(
Any one creative?

2007-10-03 03:37:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She said she will move out but her grand ma passed away and she got a cold … Her grand ma died overseas, so I sent a beautiful flower bouquet and I took care of her till she got well. Now it is 2 weekends that she can go and search for an apartment but as I see she is shopping ($1000 clothes, shoes …) she used to come home at 6:00 pm after work but now she is home after 9:00 pm
I tried to talk to her 2 times after getting the divorce papers but she did not listen, accused me and said unreal things. I asked her to come to the Family canceller and she said: I came to her 3 times but the feed back was not good and I do not believe in counseling (meaning: My way or highway!)
She had some boxes packed all around our small apartment for 3 weeks. Last night finally I put them all in front of her wardrobe. I told her I thought about the papers and I agree with divorce. We should get separated ASAP and go on with our lives.
I realized that she was not expecting this but she has a big ego and said: I will leave as soon as possible. And started accusing me of pushing her!
She always wants to keep me hanging on! Isn’t it my right to ask her about her plan? I bought my house in a week. Can’t she find an apartment to rent (she wants to rent)
I want to know what she thinks… Maybe you have been there my friend… What is all that shopping (I know there is no other man) Why is she procrastinating?
I talked to our counselor yesterday, she told me I gave up my rights in this marriage, she was walking all over me because I never had a back bone… counselor is right, I always accepted whatever she said ... I am a successful businessman, very handsome but with my wife what I did was interpreted as my weakness not love…
I have feelings for her, but for one time I want to stand up because in this relationship I will not be happy at all…I want to know about your experience… she has a big ego, very jealous and controlling…she has good things but knowing the bad side, do you think she will move out?

2007-10-03 03:36:34 · 18 answers · asked by mazyar m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 03:35:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As you can tell from the question thats the situation i believe i'm in. I'm not sure i can live with myself if i break up his relationship but equally if i just let him go i'm not sure i could forgive myself either.

2007-10-03 03:30:41 · 32 answers · asked by hotvic_23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here is the deal i just had a baby about 3 months ago and i had to quit my job before i had him well after i had him i told him that i wanted to go back to work and he told me that he wanted me home to take care of the baby that i could go back after the first of the year now that he is the only one working he has to pay all the bills and he is not liking that much well now he comes home bit**ing all the time and blames me for everything and i'm the type of person i don't like it very much so i'm thinking about leaving someone please give me some advice

2007-10-03 03:26:56 · 9 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so my 1st bridesmaid stepped up and volunteered to take her place, she wasn't my 1st or 2nd choice but was quite eager so there she was. Now my best friend and I are ok and I really want to ask her to be my maid of honor again but the 1st bridesmaid has become quite territorial about it so how do I tell her gently that I don't want her as my bridesmaid?

2007-10-03 03:26:19 · 12 answers · asked by yngbng1616 1 in Weddings

I have a master's degree and make about 45,000 a year. My husband works however, his paycheck is hardly nothing about $700 per month. We have one child and one due in December. I would like some realistic ideas on how I can make some extra money possibly from home or on the weekend. My husband has searched for other jobs, but he only has a high school diploma and the town we live in is very small and hardly hiring. With our bills, (just the basics rent, power, etc.) we are barely scraping by. Any suggestions?

2007-10-03 03:21:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been married 18 yrs, he's cheated on me, and expects me to accept him having a female best friend? What's more is that it happens to be someone I went to high school with. I have intercepted some of their phone calls and emails, and it's all still a huge secret. Yet, I'm supposed to accept them being together every wednesday night. and other times when conveinent. I know my marriage is over, and cant flip a switch ater 25 yrs together (18 married). He knows it hurts me, and bothers me for him to be with her, but he doesnt seem to care and does it anyway. I think he is lying to himself. that they arent just friends. It's showing in his actions to be alot more. This is fun to explain to our 15 yr old son too. I am at wits end, I've hit rock bottom. Neither him or I have gotten a job since may, but I've been trying alot, and then came down with pinched nerve in back down my leg, and cant represent myself in an interview very good. I'm so stuck. we are both in mid 40's.

2007-10-03 03:17:03 · 21 answers · asked by queenlionus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend always steals the remote control, its my television!!! lol. what is it with men and there obsession with having control of the television. Any ideas?

2007-10-03 03:16:40 · 14 answers · asked by Kristen W 2 in Singles & Dating

Or, if youre thinking about a divorce, why?

I am thinking about getting married and I am curious what what advice you could give from a different perspective.

2007-10-03 03:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by Stuey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

too long of a story, and much too depressing...Due to some real screwed up people,and a judicial system that will rewards narcs, He was allowed to take my children far away,It took me time to find them, when I did, the children vehemently refused to have anything to do with me,saying only that "someting bad would happen'.. 9 years later, and i still don't understand...
i didn't have the money to continue to fight, so i sent word that when the children were old enough, they knew where to find me. recently, i found my daughter online,i tried to communicate with her, letting her know how much love her and miss her, that i didn't understand what i had done to make her dispise me so.... her reply-a wedding picture and a headline ' I have every thing i need.' i sent another message,
congratulating her , sending well wishes,trying to accept her decision, though, i was devestated because i thought she would want to see me again.

2007-10-03 03:12:25 · 11 answers · asked by iwild 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an appointment with a lawyer but my husband is pushing me to make decisions and I haven't gotten to talk to a lawyer yet. I am 26, he is 42. We have been married 6 years and have a 3 y/o child. I am leaving because he is verbally abusive, controlling and neglective as a husband and father. He is a doctor and I am a stay at home mom. I am willing to let him have the house, what should I ask for in return? I don't want to take him to the cleaners but I don't want to be broke either. He is willing to pay my van off too.

2007-10-03 03:08:15 · 9 answers · asked by Barn Babe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands claims to be a sleep walker who eats in his sleep. He gets up in the middle of the night and scarfs down every snack in the house. Now if he just ate one or a little, that's one thing, but i might make brownies and have one piece out of it and gets up and scarfs the rest down. A box of little debbie snacks will go in one night too. I have to literally hide snacks and stuff where he can't find it at night so he won't eat it all up.
I kind of believe him cause he'll do weird things like crack open an egg on a plate and put it in the fridge and weird things like that.

I need advice, so I can keep food around. How do i make him stop eating everything in the house in the middle of the night?

2007-10-03 03:05:14 · 25 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So my best friend has a crush on me. He knows I don't feel the same way but lately I've been getting butterflies whenever we talk or what not. He's been constantly asking me to go to the pools or even the movies. Before the school holidays I liked his best friend but now I'm over him but he doesn't know and he said that he'll wait for me even if its forever. He said he'll do whatever it takes to get me and now he won't stop bothering esp over msn and txting. Yeahh I get butterflies when we talk or muck around but I really don't know if I like him in that way at the moment. And I'm really smart and focusing on my studies and everything and I just don't know if I would even have time for a boyfriend. It's just really hard to figure out. My question really is, is he ever gonna give up on me or not?! And should I say yes to him or what?! Or what should I do about it and yeahh?! I'm really confused. He's not the most attractive guy but I've never went for looks, personality is the key.

2007-10-03 03:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by PWD 2 in Singles & Dating

Your fiance passes away suddenly before you ever get married. The ring he gave you has been in the family for 5 generations and your fiance's mother asks for it back because you didn't get married. Do you give it back?

2007-10-03 03:03:18 · 19 answers · asked by Jellybean had her little bean 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-03 03:02:05 · 2 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, living together for 6 months. Next month he is taking me to Vegas. I've never been there before. I found out that we are staying at Paris Hotel, in a luxury suite. It's supposed to be a very romantic hotel, and I'm told the top of the Eiffel Tower is a popular place to pop the question. We are in our early 30's and most of our friends are married or engaged now...so I'm wondering if he will ask me. We don't really talk about marriage much - he's kinda old fashioned in that way.

What do you think my chances are of getting engaged?

2007-10-03 03:01:25 · 14 answers · asked by Maeve 4 in Weddings

...It's not because you never cared or you stopped caring for them. It's just that you realized you weren't good enough for them that the only way to tell them you love them is to say goodbye...

2007-10-03 03:00:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you have a court order, and things changed like times or places and you did a mutual agreemnt and the guy and the girl agreed to something else by signing it down on a paper but NOT getting it notorized, did it work in court?

2007-10-03 02:59:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

should i keep my feelings hidden from her

2007-10-03 02:58:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating