My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 months now.. we love each other with all our heart. Well he has been trying to get me to move in for about 2 months now… I Do want to and I want to be with him forever, get married and have children. I just don’t want us to breakup cuz I know it’s a lot different when you live with someone.. I don’t know if it is too soon to move in or should I go ahead and test the water out…He wants to get married also just don’t know when yet
. Just give me some good advice.. No dumb **** please, this is serious business……
2007-10-03 06:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and my boyfriend moved in together after a month...and its been 8 months living with him and things are wonderful. so no its not to early as long as your sure its right for you
2007-10-03 07:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by LB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's too early. As long as you don't have kids or other people that it affects. Just be careful. Keep money separate for a while - no joint accounts of anything until you are living with him for at least 6 months. Remember to be patient with each other and the first rule is always - say what you have to say but say it in the nicest way possible. Communication, communication, communication. xo
2007-10-03 14:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by beanasgaillimh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweet heart we moved in together 4 i yr and got married a yr later and we've been married 29 yrs going on 30 1 kid and all is still good. so i would have to say do it and find out now it's really the best way. good luck hon!
2007-10-03 14:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well in this case if I was you I would give it a shot because I have been with my Fiance for 2 years and and we have lived together for 1 years and 6 months and yes we have had out problems but er always fix them and this way you can find out his faults and his bad habits and this way you can figure out if you really want to spend your life with him!
Good Luck!
2007-10-03 15:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by My life is now complete PWK&RJC! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at that age where there is no real problem with it, but then if you do break up it means yo have joined the real world. It happens all the time and a lot of people have to get used to it. Hope it works out for you, but if not, you will be stronger for it.
2007-10-03 14:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him and truly bekieve in your heart that it will work than go for it. you never know until you try. just make sure that u always have somewhere to go incase things dont work out. ive been wit my bf 5 months and he wants me to move in but our age is stoppin us. if u have the chance to be with the person u love all the time and u think know in ur heart and mind that it all will be ok than go for it.
2007-10-03 14:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by ms. Wilder part II 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really up to you. There no such thing too early or too late to move in to his house. If you feel you already prepared to share your personal life with him. I guess you can just move on with your plan.
2007-10-03 14:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by kesuma_dewi87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms President, Dear please for the sake of your eternal soul please wait until you are married ! Also being married makes is less likely for one of you to walk when you hit rough waters !
2007-10-03 14:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋