I met this girl through my female cousin and they are best friends. We all had a party at my house and after my cousin passed out and the rest of the ppl left me and the girl was alone. We started making out and then it lead to other things but we stopped b4 sex. After that we all started hanging out alot, going out to eat, riding around, chillin, goin to the movies. We became good friends. She use to go out with my other guy cousin but they stopped dating recently. Over the last few months Ive realized i have fallin in love with her. Ive told her how i feel but she kinda blows it off. We tell each other we love each other but she does that with all of her friends. It seems like she trys to make me jealous with guys and she can tell i get mad. When I talk to a girl like about to date them she gets mad at me and tells me I shouldnt. What I want to know is how does she feel. Does she like me like me? Is she hiding it? What should I do??
2007-10-03 07:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She once told me she wished we went out instead of my cousin which she did go out with then. And i told her I wished the same and she said it made her happy I felt that but thats it.Nothin came out of it and ive tried. What do I do really I need to know???
2007-10-03 07:31:48 · update #1
maybe she likes you more than just a best friend but sometimes, friends can't just cross the boundaries of friendship. maybe she doesn't want to lose you as one of her closest friends. she's probably afraid that a relationship might ruin your bond. talk to her, you can never really tell just sitting around and assuming things. go on! ;)
2007-10-03 07:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her. She has been a girlfriend of your cousin. Seems like she is not so serious at all. You told her about your feelings and she still playing hard to get. Don't be a boyfriend of your cousin ex. She will laugh at you and bragging to everybody. Is she that pretty and is she that kind of girlfriend you wanna have. Boy .. you feel you fall in love because you do that.. and that.. think it over again. What is the reason why your cousin drop her? Did you asked your cousin what he feel if you date his ex.? Ask your self and make a reflection out of it.
2007-10-03 14:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she keeps blowing it off, you're going to have to get her attention. Take her out for dinner and seriously tell her how you feel, or - kind of childish but it works - ask her friend to ask her if she likes you.
If she does, just give her a kiss. Her reactions will give you an answer
2007-10-03 14:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHH to be a teenager again. Playing games are all apart of high school and teenager years. Yes they are stupid but you have to play them better if you choose to play games.
Like I said above, games are a waste of time. I say talk to her and really tell her what you want...Spill everything out to her...if she isnt cool with it then walk away and never look back.
2007-10-03 14:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't want to cross the line because she was with your cousin previously. what you need to ask yourself is if she's worth pursuing. if she is, then you need to sit down and talk to her! I mean, you said she was your best friend, right?
2007-10-03 14:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shortchange an excellent friend for an indifferent spouse.
2007-10-03 14:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is jealous thats why she tells you not to date her but if your digging her then go for it good luck
2007-10-03 14:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yaknowme89, Dude, Fantastic, You make her your wife and love her forever !
2007-10-03 14:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with them regularly...huh?
2007-10-03 14:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Honest_&_Loyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋