Am I giving him enough?

Question

I let my hubby do most anything he wants. This includes watching adult films. At first it bothered me that he wanted to watch them...but soon I just got used to it. He seemed so happy when I let him. Well now its like everytime Im away from the house, He watches something. It upsets me. We have talked about it before, but he swares that he is just horny. Is this a normal thing among men?? I dont want to be a horrible wife, and be a B**** about it. I keep my 120 lb body in shape at the gym...wear hot clothes & be as sexy as I possibly can. Im just confused and need some advice. I want to make my man the happiest guy in the world!

Answer 1

If you're really giving him enough, I would think he wouldn't bother with the porn. He probably literally could have sex every day, could you?

But bless you for actually wanting to make him the happiest. You sound like a hottie to boot. A lot of us are missing that. If I had someone who actually tried, the porn would collect dust.

Answer 2

I think I heard a silent "but" at the end of the last sentence. Let's see if I can help you answer the question "Am I giving him enough?" Please ignore those above who say this has nothing to do with you. This really has everything to do with you.

Do you ever refuse sex? By that I mean, have you ever, even once, told him "No" or "I'm not in the mood" or "I have a headache"? If so, then the answer is simple. No, you are not giving him enough. Men, including married men, do not like to be turned down for sex. The girls in porn flicks never tell your man "no". He points and clicks, and away we go.

Take a long, hard look at yourself and your own actions and attitudes if you really want to "make my man the happiest guy in the world!"

Answer 3

I believe he's wanting to much. Has the sex been different since this or has it decreased? Maybe he's getting some thing from the films that he's not getting from you. This is not anything that you've done wrong, he maybe wanting more than he should ask for.
It sounds as though you're an attractive woman, so why does he need the movies?
Maybe you need to become a ***** and find out what he really wants, you or the movies. Thier maybe a compromise. Maybe he has some fantasies that aren't to outragous that you could satisfy for him. Then of course he would have to satisfy a fantasy for you.

Ken

Answer 4

Don't assume for a second that because he's watching that stuff that he doesn't find you attractive. Don't be threatened by porn or be insecure by it. And, just because you're attractive doesn't mean he's having his needs met. If he says he's horny, then he's horny...so do something about it.

Note to self: No more answers in regards to porn and women. They clearly only need vindication for their already answered question.

Answer 5

He sounds overboard. Yes, you're giving him more than enough actually. Many men would kill to have a woman to worship who took as good care of themself as it sounds like you do. Does he do the same for you?

Answer 6

Yes it is normal for a man to be horny almost 24/7. Maintenance sex would relieve him of this tension. Have you ever watched the films with him?

Answer 7

i dont think it has anything to do with you the problem is that you have a problem with it and he continues to do it. i dont get it either but as long as hes not spending too much money on it and you have a healthy sex life it should be ok.

Answer 8

let me ask you this, why isnt he worried about making you the happiest woman in the world? he does what he knows you dislike and doesnt care, but you do.

Answer 9

yes most men do it every day to not get to horny :P why dont you in a way be the adult film ? ._.

Answer 10

Watch them with him i do with my husband its a real turn on