My husband and me recently got married even though he lives far away. He does plan on moving out to where I live in a few months. I am nervous thinking what if he is unable to find a good job and wonder if things will work out. I love him so much and he loves me. He treats me great and is the most wonderful man I know. I want this to work. Has anyone ever been involved in moving and relocating? What pointers can you give us that worked for you? Any help will and advice will be appreciated.
2007-10-03 08:38:38 · 7 answers · asked by pictureshygirl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love WILL ALWAYS prevail. Just keep that in mind. But in the meantime, you can help the situation. Send him websites, Sunday paper classifieds......get a copy of his resume' and drop it off or fax it to available places of his type of employment. This shows him that you are behind him 100%. And it may also speed up the process. Because he might get frustrated while looking for a job. I believe the hardest thing will be adjusting to being around each other constantly. Arguments start to come a little easier, but just never let them get the best of you.....
2007-10-03 08:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i agree with just smile. Why dont you try to move to his place. If you are not doing any job.then it would be good. If you are working then, make his resume attractive, Keep looking for a good job for him.in news papers , internet etc. But try not to make him feel that this is the only thing you are worried about in this whole world
2007-10-04 00:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Congratulations for getting married.
Life is nothing but making various Compromises.
Staying together should be the highest priority at the cost of anything else,even getting a lower job.
2007-10-03 15:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yar it is very impossible to get job at your nearby town.
This is life's uncertainity that may moves us from any place to other. But if you have great love for any one that will be ur lover forever there will be no hindrance by distance .
LOVE IS ONLY THING WHICH DOESN'T DEPENDS ON DISTANCE OF CITY BUT MAY AFFECTD BY DISTANCE BETWEEN HEARTS
2007-10-04 04:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by vikky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEE MOVING FOR JOB IS NOT BAD THINGS. MAN WILL MOVE THERE WHERE HE WILL GET HIS BREAD AND BUTTER.
SEE FIRST OF ALL WHERE ARE YOU SHIFTING OR HE IS GETTING JOB. KNOW ITS IF AND BUT. WHETHER COMPANY IS GOOD AND THEIR PAYING CAPACITY ACCORDING TO THE LIVING STANDARD OF THE CITY.
SUPPOSE YOU ARE WORKING IN SMALL CITY YOU CAN LOOK AFTER YOUR FAMILY NEED WITH SMALL SALARY. IF YOU ARE SHIFTING METRO CITY WITH SMALL RAISE THERE IS NO USE BECAUSE RENT OF THE HOUSE IS UNBEARABLE.
WHENEVER YOU SHIFT TO NEW CITY CHOOSE BEST PLACE FOR YOUR HOUSE. LOCALITY AND GENTRY WOULD BE GOOD ONE. TRY TO SEARCH THE HOUSE NEARER TO YOUR WORK PLACE. IT WILL CONTROL YOUR DAILY CONVEYANCE.
2007-10-03 23:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Dont cross the bridge before you get there.
2. Be optimistic.
3. Love overcomes all obstacles.
4. Be patient.
2007-10-03 19:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Pramod R 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The advise I have is not specific to your situation, but advise for all newlyweds. That advise is: Pick your battles wisely.
Good luck.
2007-10-03 15:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋