How can 2 people truely be able to understand one another.. My bf works 2 jobs and is tired a lot and that makes it hard for us to see each other I understand that he is tired and I'm not saying we have to see each other every day. But I want him to understand I'm trying to make our relationship work.
2007-10-03 08:27:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Huh? How? Really, how do you think your making the relationship work? Whats the purpose of your relationship, outside the love you share? If you can't answer that, your not doing crap to make it work..... That aside, the man works two jobs, you picked him, what do you expect? I've done two jobs, you know how much time I had just for myself? ZERO, so to add someone else to that, he's being sort of compassinatless to you. Actually done right UNFAIR. DO you know which direction crap flows? Down hill, right into your life. So really this relationship might just not work, sorry. Love isn't enough, its how we use it. And he might have the love hunnie, but no time to use it. Your best bet is to HELP him change his life, and you and him talk SERIOUSLY about finding a purpose outside that love. Like church, curing cancer, kicking old people around, fixing global warming, it doesn't matter, just something so you guys can actually WORK on that relationship. Lets put it this way, a relationship without purpose outside of it like for instance marriage, kiddos, or family/friends, is a lost relationship and if you reach deep enough, amoral. Don't believe me? Ask an abused spouse how that love helps them and what her purpose is. I bet you'll get "I don't know" on both.....
2007-10-03 10:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 06:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about for giving time to you as if he loves you he will surely make an effort by himself to give time, you both can manage to meet each other at week off he gets and you try to give him a space and understand his work and don't pressurize him for anything as it can break your relationship.you should also make yourself busy and do some activities that makes you busy for avoiding this gap between both of you.
2015-01-08 00:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋