my parent separated when i was 2 and my dad lives in n.y. and i live in CT with my mom. my mom has a boyfriend and ny dad has a girlfriend. My parents still speak they dont like hate each other, but i wanna get them back together. how do i break them up with their girl/ boyfriend and get them back together?
2007-10-03 09:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i HATE my moms boyfriend
2007-10-03 09:56:43 · update #1
you shouldn't, that's kind of selfish. don't you want them to be happy?
2007-10-03 10:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Loving.You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to wait till summer....then go to camp. There you will meet a girl who looks just like you. You two will hate each other and get into so much trouble for it that the counselors make you stay in a cabin together until you get along. While in the cabin the two of you will realize that you are twins separated at birth....Oh wait, that's a fairytale movie.
2007-10-03 16:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what others have said.
Your parents separated because they were happier apart than together. It happens that way sometimes.
Look at it this way: if your parents got back together, it doesn't mean they'll be happy together. In fact, they might be more miserable because they separated for reasons. Those reasons are their personal reasons and unfortunately you can't challenge that.
All you can do is help them understand how you're feeling and maybe they'll explain to you why they separated and, if necessary, why they would or would not get back together.
That's somethign you can ask them to help you with - to help you understand why they're not together.
2007-10-03 17:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to want your parents back together, but accepting that they are adults, separated and that they have to work on their relationship, because it's all up to them, not you is the better way to go. And because they are already with other people, you need to stay out of it.
2007-10-03 16:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is a reason why your parents separated and you should not be trying to get them back to gether sometimes oil and vingar dont mix.
best of luck
2007-10-03 16:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It’s highly unlikely that they’re going to get back together. They have both moved on and they are both seeing other people. You have to face the facts.
2007-10-03 16:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by RSJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't! You cannot control other peoples lives!
2007-10-03 16:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Because you as their daughter should want them to be happy. If that's not with each other, then so be it......But if you try to ruin their current happiness....they'll never forgive you.....
2007-10-03 16:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fake being sick. always brings parents together. WTF why would you wanna do that. worry about your life. be happy for them. atleast there not fighting anymore with you around
2007-10-03 16:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by wee willie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋