My 'best friend' is going out with the guy I like?

Question

err.
I week after school began,
I told her (my best friend) that I liked this cute guy in my band class.
She said he was 'okay' & that was it.
It's been a month, and they're going out!
She also said yesterday, "Go away! Julian won't talk to me if you're around!"
That wasn't nice!
She chose him over me,
she chooses a lot of pepople over me!
It's as if, she thinks I'm not worthy.


Why is she doing this to me? I really liked him.
..& What do I do?!

I meant "a week" not "I week"
sorry :)

Answer 1

if she is treating you that way you should try to find a new friend to be around. you dont need someone who would take your crush from you. you are worthy to have any guy that you love that will love you back. you are wa worth-wile person and dont let anyone tell you are not.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Well, it's pretty clear she's not your friend. It's one thing to go behind your back and date him and it's another thing to make comments like that when you come around. She prob feels like she's the s**t right now. Trust me girls like that will come and go a million times throughout your life. Don't even waste your time calling them your friends. You need to forget about her and him. Only time will tell how things will turn out. All I can say is that without trust there is no friendship. You need to focus your attention somewhere else and forget about both of them. Trust me after a couple months you'll look back and ask yourself "what was I thinking". Stay stronge.

Answer 4

I think she's not your real best friend. But try to talk to her and ask her why. Sometimes we can't see only the half side. Maybe you can even ask Julian (the guy you like) about his feeling. Remember she said yesterday that Julian won't talk to her if you're around. Julian may like you. He maybe shy or worry that he'll make you jealous. Talk to Julian. They don't even going steady, aren't they?
Just think that your 'best friend' is like him, but Julian doesn't like her. Be optimist. People have their own way to make someone they like be close to them.

Answer 5

Well that has happened to me. I told my best friend that I liked a guy and she she started going with him right after, but after she moved away they broke up and I started going with him and the relationship is great.
So my point is that you should try and be happy for them (or at least pretend to) until they break up then snatch him up.

Answer 6

get over it people find relationships all the time and end up dumping there friends over guys your so called friend is just another one of them slutty bitches who only thinks about whats between her legs other than whats in front of her eyes.

Answer 7

You can start by fading out your friendship with her. Find some friends who you can add to your mutual admiration society....... Then look for another guy.

Answer 8

This "friend" is not worth your time- if she really cared about your friendship she wouldn't blow you off. PLus it says something about who she is how she totally bblew off your feelings for this guy. Forget about her.

Answer 9

She's so not a good friend

I'd stay away from her. You can find better friends (like me ><)

Answer 10

she sounds like a ***** and is prrrobley lying.......dont be so gullible go up and ask him its no big deal....