Love and knowledge of it?

Question

If you are in a relationship, how do you know your in love?

And, if you believe your in love, but while in this relationship you learn more about what it means to BE in love were you ever in love in the first place, or is our knowledge of it expanding?

Answer 1

No, doesn't work like that. See love is the most rawest, most purest of emotions, its point in our life, to make us feel. If you feel ANYTHING for ANYTHING, its because of love, even disgust. You crushed a bug, looked at your shoe, went eeeewww, its because you loved the bug, or rather the corpse of the bug, becuase you FEEL disgust for it. See how it works? Sort of like your "understanding" of love. Its that the feelings have continue to intensify that you thought that you've became "more in love" Which isn't exactly the truth, what happen is that you've found more things to assciated this guy with, within yourself, that making his presence more powerful in your life. So more to feel, more to call "love". Are culture has a misunderstanding of how it works which is why the terms are flawed. The abused spouse situation is the best example of its dysfunction. People tend to stay in abusive relaitonship because they believe the abuse isn't love, the fact is it is, thats how the abuser loves. But they hold on to the hope that, that abuser will someday love them and not beat them, forsaking the fact that they beat them because they love them, catch-22..... you see how it works? e-mail me I've got many more examples, and many more words of wisdom on this subject.....