Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

I personally believe you can, but it's some people who think differently. What is your take on it?

2007-10-03 12:54:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so i have been having stomach pains. today they were acting up after eating some junk food after school so when my parents called me to dinner i said i wasnt hungry. my dad threw a fit and made me go eat. i had one bite of chicken and a few peas and my stomach was killing me because of that. i asked if i could leave yet and my mom made a huge deal about family dinner. she never has before and i was kinda rude and said, "when will we stop having these dumb 'family diners'" i know it was rude but i felt horrible. i seriously couldnt eat and they made me and didnt listen when i tried to explain.

well i went upstairs to cool down and try to keep from feeling bad when i heard my dad yell at my mom telling her i am annorexic. i am not now nor ever will be annorexic and it hurts me to think he thinks that. i mean i didnt feel good and i havent been eating dinner lately because at night i get stomach ahces. my parents dont believe me when i tell them this.

can someone please help me

2007-10-03 12:54:06 · 9 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Family

Every day i end up getting punched or slapped and sometimes its drastic like he threw a phone at the back of my head with all of his force, and, one time he beat me on the back and couldn't stand up straight and when anyone came up behind me i would flinch. he threatens me with a belt almost every day and scares me half to death. sometimes when im eating or something and i put the trash on the table he just sais "no" in this really mean tone and i know what to do. i always obey him and he has me in complete command. ive tried to stand up to him but he is stronger than me and i always back down. i am so scared. i want to be in control. im 13 and he is only 12 so how is he always in charge? i want to controll him but i am to scared to threaten him and if i hurt him i get in trouble because he exadurates,and when he hurts me i scream in horror getting me in even more trouble. if he saw me writeing this i would be knocked out. id better go but please tell me what to do!! i need help!

2007-10-03 12:52:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay i know this is silly but this is the second time this has happend and i am almost fed up. He started a joke about me making his eye being blurry (and this is just a joke) and i had said: "what you're goind to tell your teacher that your girlfriend (which is supposed to be me even though i am both again supposedly) that your girlfriend poked you in the eye?" he said "no i am going to tell the teacher that my baby momma poked out my eye" okay is it me or am i making this big big deal. This is the second time he called me his baby momma not his girlfriend or his fiance..and talks about he wants to get married...OH! come on he even address me as this to the people he know and really i try to be a good girl and be nice.He hasn't my devilish side yet....i need some answers for i kick him to the curve and find someone else.

2007-10-03 12:51:34 · 16 answers · asked by Raizelyakira 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...not ALWAYS...but most of the time!?????

2007-10-03 12:49:45 · 2 answers · asked by julie h 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm having this argument w/my daughter. i need to know if i'm absolutely off my rocker. needing a different view point - thanks!!

2007-10-03 12:48:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend tells me he loves me often and he also told me he can see being with me forever.... i want to believe him but, Im scared it might not be fully true. would a guy lie about seeing himself being with someone forever?

2007-10-03 12:39:48 · 12 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok guys this is yur chance to redeam yourselves!!!!!

2007-10-03 12:38:10 · 2 answers · asked by bree 2 in Singles & Dating

I am so in love with him when I shouldn’t. He's a pretty dysfunctional man. He's a 34 yr old twice divorced man. An alcoholic with 2 DUI's on his record and now working on probation. I'm a 26 yr old never married woman. He cheated several times. We were together for about two years, this last time he cheated it was with a younger 22 year old married girl with two babies (a six month old and an 8 year old). I work at hooters and have had plenty of chances to cheat on him and never once did because I love him and him cheating on me makes me feel like trash. Especially when he left me for a MARRIED woman a MARRIED woman. And with children !!! Someone please explain to me what happpened. What's wrong with me? what could I have done wrong for him to chose her over me? and then when we talk he literally cries to me telling me that's he's really sorry for hurting me? and says that if he never had told me the truth about sleeping with her, me and him still would have been together?

2007-10-03 12:37:33 · 28 answers · asked by confused but not dazed 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i cheated on someones homework? what should i do?

2007-10-03 12:34:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So my boyfriend of a year is my best friend. Im 16 and he is 18. We get along great and hes been the only person i can trust with anything. I can talk to him whenever i need to. None of my friends can i talk to whenever i need to, they are extremely lazy and never want to do anything other than watch movies, they gossip.... Which is fun all i need is one person that i can be open with, But then my friends think im being mean by not telling them everything... which isnt true.... I dont get what they want from me its not like i never talk to them, it frustrates me soo much specially becuase they arent very nice. Im in a rougher highschool and its not easy to just go make new friends. What should i do?

2007-10-03 12:32:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what are some good, random conversation starters? or something random to keep it going with people you dont know?

2007-10-03 12:21:47 · 190 answers · asked by kyla 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex started dating in feb. we were really close and practically living together from the start. after about a month of that final exams came around and we were both stressed and started having some arguments about time and priorities. that led to us breaking up several times (he broke up with me but he always came back 2 days later asking to get back together). then we were together all summer, but it was a long distance relationship from may-august. but he was really affectionate and nice and we saw each other a couple times(but we talked on the phone almost everyday). then when we were living in the same city again (in sept) he seemed really distant and then he broke up with me a few days after i got back saying that he had gotten used to being alone over the summer and that he didn't want a relationship right now and that he just wasn't feeling it anymore. what's happened and is there any chance of getting him back?

2007-10-03 12:20:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy, but i can't tell if he likes me

2007-10-03 12:20:10 · 1 answers · asked by cheeseluvr 1 in Singles & Dating

she might want to move back. Their son is enrolled in school & her address has been changed. Can she take him out of school & move back home??

2007-10-03 12:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by luvmybabies 3 in Marriage & Divorce

........ to stay on yahoo answers than go to bed even though i know i am tired?

2007-10-03 12:14:02 · 1 answers · asked by nightowl 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to try it all. i've been completely sober/innocent for the past 17 years and i'm tired of it. that lifestyle doesn't make me feel good, it makes me feel like im missing out on experiences. i've asked my friend to do it all with me and he said okay but i think he thought i was semi-joking. i smoked my first cigarette with him two days ago and i loved it. i think hes finally realized that i honestly want to try pot and all the other things i told him. he no longer is going to introduce me to those things because he wants me to 'stay innocent' and he said he would feel responsible for screwing me up if he let me do everything i wanted. But i honestly want to. how can i convince him to let me do these things? i know they are bad for you and may screw me up but i seriously dont care any more. this is my decision, how can i make him see that?

2007-10-03 12:07:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We're getting married in 2 weeks and trying to iron out tipping issues. Any advice on how much to tip (if at all) each vendor/contract would be much appreciated:

Photographer
Wedding cake (for delivery - we do pay a delivery fee)
DJ
String quartet
Pastor
Bartenders (we pay per person per hour + 18% gratuity - tip above and beyond?)
Caterer (we pay 18% gratuity - tip above and beyond?)
Florist

We are also going to provide dinner for the photographer and DJ. Is this usually what is done? Thanks in advance!

2007-10-03 12:06:55 · 7 answers · asked by kdkmilwaukee 1 in Weddings

both my wife and me agreed to divorce and my 2 child custody belongs to me (husband). To avoid to the court hearing, what should i say on the petition of legal custody of children to? and what form do it need to attach with?

2007-10-03 12:06:20 · 4 answers · asked by little laho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 6 month pregnant, yes I know I'm a fool. Was swept off my feet by 28 year old BF I'm 36, got engaged to be maried august this year got pregnant in april, he delayed wedding till next year. Now refuses to move him, swears he loves me but smokes weed and spends nights when he's not her watching footie with mates. Told me tonight he watches footie in pub with mates and their 18 yr old GF's and couldn't take me as I wdnt fit in...as some are drug dealers and nothing in common with 18 yr girls...he cheated on me with 17 yr old too 7 mth ago....arggh

2007-10-03 12:01:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

marriage license renewals every 10 years? And what would be the negative effects of it?

2007-10-03 11:57:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a destination wedding in Hawaii and was thinking instead of the traditional reception, we could all go to a Luau. Would you as guest think this is cheap way to go or would you feel cheated in any way knowing that you traveled all that way for a luau? My fiance and i just arent into the whole dancing and cake cutting stuff, this is more our style.

2007-10-03 11:51:33 · 6 answers · asked by boodoll33 5 in Weddings

We found out he is addicted to pain pills and he has gone crazy, he threatened my daughters life and my grandaughters lives, then he tried to hang himself. At the moment he is in the mental hospital, and they will be sending him to the detox place pretty soon. My problem is that my daughter is now left trying to take care of the house and kids and make all the payments on everything. Not to mention the mental hospital is wanting big bucks from them since they do not have insurance. My question is - Is there any government agencies that will give her money to help with the bills while her husband is away?
I know this is probably not the right category to post this in, but maybe someone can help anyway.

2007-10-03 11:46:59 · 7 answers · asked by SisterCF 4 in Family

2007-10-03 11:40:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we are both looking for other jobs anyways, he's single, and perfect! so far its been innocent, we did have one incident a few months ago, it never became an issue, after spending 40 hrs a week with him for 4 months i am damn sure that i am interseted in him as a person, he is a great man! but it is taking forever for me to find a new job, and he is waiting on the sherifs exam (takes forever) its starting to drive me nuts, we agreed back when that we'd wait until one of us was gone, but im tired of waiting!!!!! how do i get him to agree!

2007-10-03 11:38:25 · 6 answers · asked by shamrocks 5 in Singles & Dating

Say you are twenty. You take part in an experiment and go into suspended animation for sixty years. When you waken up you are eighty years old, but you still look and feel twenty. Would it be OK to date people sixty years younger, or would you have to date other old people like yourself?

Would people think you were weird when you told them your age, if you looked sixty years younger than you actually were?

2007-10-03 11:32:49 · 18 answers · asked by 2kool4u 5 in Singles & Dating

kinda a silly question but i was in d-hall today and its like freezing cold in there they do it on purpuse i think its like a icebox... anyways i was warm and confortable in my big hoodie when this girl who im pretty cool with asked could she borrow it cuz she was freezing she had on a little tank top.. but i said no because then i would be cold and i liked the tank she was wearing anyways it kept me interested if u no what i meen so was i wrong?

2007-10-03 11:31:25 · 22 answers · asked by iRebel17 1 in Singles & Dating

bcause mine sure do

2007-10-03 11:29:02 · 2 answers · asked by Member of PAC n pasc 3 in Family

A friend of mine was going on about all the people (specifically males) she meets and message randomly through hot or not/Facebook. She says it's nothing serious since she is in a long term relationship (over 5 years). However, when her bf does the same thing with females, she flips out. Why do you think this is? My friend knows she has jealous characteristics in her so why do you think she feels it's ok for her to do something but not him?

2007-10-03 11:15:33 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I just don't know if it would be worse to ignore their special day.

2007-10-03 11:10:47 · 13 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Family