Every day i end up getting punched or slapped and sometimes its drastic like he threw a phone at the back of my head with all of his force, and, one time he beat me on the back and couldn't stand up straight and when anyone came up behind me i would flinch. he threatens me with a belt almost every day and scares me half to death. sometimes when im eating or something and i put the trash on the table he just sais "no" in this really mean tone and i know what to do. i always obey him and he has me in complete command. ive tried to stand up to him but he is stronger than me and i always back down. i am so scared. i want to be in control. im 13 and he is only 12 so how is he always in charge? i want to controll him but i am to scared to threaten him and if i hurt him i get in trouble because he exadurates,and when he hurts me i scream in horror getting me in even more trouble. if he saw me writeing this i would be knocked out. id better go but please tell me what to do!! i need help!
2007-10-03 12:52:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i might also say that my mom knows all about it and she really doesnt do anything but kindof yell but not enough that he will stop
2007-10-03 12:59:18 · update #1
if i tell my mom she will laugh i know it
2007-10-03 13:00:43 · update #2
girl u need to take charge!! dont let his lil self intimidate you. tell ur parents and if they dont do nothing u need to talk to some one else who can help you like a teacher or a freind. ur brother only doing this because for 1 hes a boy and now he knows u are scared of him so is going to do whateva he can to make sure u saty scared of him. u need to beat his *** 1 good time then he will get sacred and leave u alone. and then beat his *** agin just to make sure. if u get introuble so what? at least he wont bother u no more.
2007-10-03 13:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by LADY_T.I. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can take this 2 ways. The good or the bad way. Good- talk to your parents if that does not work talk to a teacher or someone that can help you and if it's to the point where he beats you till you bleed 911 or child protection place. Bad- Get a bat or some friends and beat his a** and show him who's in control and beat him good to make sure he doesn't do it again (do it on a vacation or weekend to hide the beatings for public eyes) and the trouble you get from your mom most likely if she turns a blind eye to your brother then she will to you but if she does yell, taking how she is if you talk back and show some back bone nothing will happen to you. Since your a girl I say go the good way unless your 13 in high school then get some guy friends and jump him.
2007-10-03 13:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by demonicv627 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know ware your coming from. I also had and brother that beat me up all the time. And the only thing that worked for me was telling him that he had to sleep sometime. So the next time he beat me,I quietly went into his room and punched him as hard as i could in the stomach, and then got back in bed like i knew nothing. after a few nights of this he backed off. I would still try and get your mother to understand that he is really hurting you. And get someone to show you self defense. If your brother can over power you think of what a stranger could do. good luck Hun!
2007-10-03 13:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jen-Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you joking? Girl get some guts! When he's asleep you get a shoe and beat his scrawny little 12 year old butt! Scratch, punch, hit, kick, bite if he tries to hurt you defend yourself!
Oh and by the way when he hits scream stop in your most angriest and loudest voice like to the stop of your lungs. With all your might! Don't back down! Train yourself to look tall and stand up. Don't let a single part of your body show fear. Look him straight in the eyes and act like your about to attack.
2007-10-03 13:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This Very Serious Talk To Your Parents Asap..
Sounds Like He Must have A.D.D Or Sumthin Cause thats just not normal for a 12 year old boy
Plze talk to ur parents
2007-10-03 13:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my lil bro..Okay this is what you do hun go to your counsler at school and tell her what is going on in your household tell her how your mom handles it and what your brother does..I have been in this same situation trust me she will listen when other ppl get involved..My advise for the mean time next time he goes to do it say what is your problem why do you feel the need to hurt me? I love you and I don't want to see you acting so harsh towards me..I'm sorry for what I have done can we please think of a solution..Before we both get into trouble!
2007-10-03 13:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents won't do anything to control his bad behavior, you should talk to your Guidance Counsellor at school. Be honest with them and tell them you are afraid of him. Tell them all the things he has done to you. Also tell them that if he finds out you have talked with the Guidance Counsellor it would be worse for you at home. Do you have other relatives you can confide in such as a grandmother or aunt? If so, and if you trust them to keep what you say confidential, tell them what's been going on. I will be praying that God protect you.
2007-10-03 13:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pull one of your parents aside, perferably when he's not home, and tell them exactly what you wrote here. This isn't right, he should never ever hit you or truely hurt you. siblings wrestle and fight, but you both are to old, and someone needs to teach him, that you don't ever hit girls, or hurt them. He sounds violent, and your parents need to know you are scared. If they will not listen to you, go to a school counselor. neither of you need to be controlling the other, but noone needs to be violent. record him if you can and show your mom. If he leaves bruises on you, show your mom.
2007-10-03 13:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this will work or not but it's got to be worth a try. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. Perhaps he doesn't realise. Give him a hug. Some siblings like that. It calms them down and makes them feel happier. Be nice to him but don't let him take advantage of you. Spen time with him.
2007-10-03 13:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents you should really not stand this kinda think from a little punk, especially if he's ur brother, tell ur parents in the most serious tone u can they can't ignore you if you can really show them ur terrified of your brother.
2007-10-03 12:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋