i'm having this argument w/my daughter. i need to know if i'm absolutely off my rocker. needing a different view point - thanks!!
2007-10-03 12:48:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Without more details, I'd say "No". If you aren't ready for your boyfriend to be a part of your family life, then why the heck would you marry him?
2007-10-03 12:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by eli_star 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Exactly my thoughts as to what the first poster said.
If you don't love him enough to want him with you all the time and around all the other people you know or love you are not ready for marriage. Marriage means he will be apart of your life-all of it. Not just teh parts you choose to accept. It's a huge commitment.
2007-10-03 19:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you wouldn't want someone you love with you for the holidays. Is it because of the boyfriend? Or is it other family members? Without more information it is really hard to answer.
2007-10-03 20:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Reba 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having second thoughts? If you love him enough to want to marry him, then you should want him with you over the holidays. Could it be that you dont want him socialising with your family, or are you subconciously worried about something there?
2007-10-03 20:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by n!kKi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are not but it depends why you don't want him there. Your spouse should always be wanted unless he was hurtful in some way or annoying (minor details).
2007-10-03 20:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is WHY don't you want him to be with you and your family?
2007-10-04 11:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋