me and my ex started dating in feb. we were really close and practically living together from the start. after about a month of that final exams came around and we were both stressed and started having some arguments about time and priorities. that led to us breaking up several times (he broke up with me but he always came back 2 days later asking to get back together). then we were together all summer, but it was a long distance relationship from may-august. but he was really affectionate and nice and we saw each other a couple times(but we talked on the phone almost everyday). then when we were living in the same city again (in sept) he seemed really distant and then he broke up with me a few days after i got back saying that he had gotten used to being alone over the summer and that he didn't want a relationship right now and that he just wasn't feeling it anymore. what's happened and is there any chance of getting him back?
2007-10-03 12:20:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a situation almost identical to the one you are in. Trust me, break it off and keep your distance. I went through a lot of pain but i am now happy.
My ex is happily married and i am with a partner. I am now 40 and caught up with him after 15 years for my 40th birthday (my Sister invited him). We are now firm friends and his wife is lovely.
Sometimes things just run their course and you are meant to move on.
I wish you all the best for your future. You WILL get over this!!
2007-10-03 12:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Guggi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you both grow & learn from this. When my bf & I 1st got together it was a long distant relationship as well. Practically 200 mls away. We still did it. He understood about school & time. We have never let the distance get in the way, we have never argued or broken up because of it. Looks to me he has other priorities on his mind then being w/you.-Ive been w/my bf for 3 yrs now-you need to move on
2007-10-03 12:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal Goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's over. It happened to me as college ended. People want to make a new start. Sounds like a bad relationship anyway if you guys were always breaking up. Trust me, it hurts now, but you will be so thankful that this happened, when you find someone else. This might cause you to find your future husband someday. It happened to me... but it was my wife not husband. haha
I count my lucky stars that I was dumped so long ago.
2007-10-03 12:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by b down 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really doesn't want a relationship, dnt push it. No good can come of that. If u really still like him, just tell him EXACTLY how u feel, but b sure to let him know that u'll give him time if he needs.
2007-10-03 12:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same kind of situation..it seemed when it was long distance it was better..when i moved exactly where he lived..thats when things fell apart..we just where at two different points in our life,i had to realize that i deserved better and to move on..although it will be hard i suggest you do the same..you will thank yourself down the road..save yourself a whole lotta heartache..good luck!
2007-10-03 12:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this yourself I think . It is time to move on and forget him . Obviously his priorities are different from yours . good luck .
2007-10-03 12:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there a chance of you getting him back but can you avoid him from any contact at all? that what i am trying to do and it is hard,but he will find how much he misses your voice and will try anything to have you back
2007-10-03 12:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Bad Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your cleaver enough to answer your own question Susan
2007-10-03 12:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to know for sure if he is yours is to let him go and see if he comes back.
2007-10-03 12:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by tom the plumber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not into you.
Time to forget him and move on.
2007-10-03 12:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋