Okay i know this is silly but this is the second time this has happend and i am almost fed up. He started a joke about me making his eye being blurry (and this is just a joke) and i had said: "what you're goind to tell your teacher that your girlfriend (which is supposed to be me even though i am both again supposedly) that your girlfriend poked you in the eye?" he said "no i am going to tell the teacher that my baby momma poked out my eye" okay is it me or am i making this big big deal. This is the second time he called me his baby momma not his girlfriend or his fiance..and talks about he wants to get married...OH! come on he even address me as this to the people he know and really i try to be a good girl and be nice.He hasn't my devilish side yet....i need some answers for i kick him to the curve and find someone else.
2007-10-03 12:51:34 · 16 answers · asked by Raizelyakira 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay maybe i need to explaint his a bit mo. we have a baby together. he wants to get married.We've been together on and off for one year. But if somebody supossed to be your girl then why not address them as what their title should be. Men what is up with that title baby momma? I know i am his baby momma but if i am his girl wtf! He's called me his baby momma in front of his friends....am i being stupid feel free to call me stupid if am..i need a good laugh anyway
2007-10-03 14:19:48 · update #1
Talk to him. If he doesn't stop. Give him the door.#
2007-10-03 12:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Baby momma is used to refer to a woman who has had a child (or children) by and for a guy. In your case, however, it could mean1 ) he wants to have children with you since it does not appear you guys have any2) ,he is trying to make people misunderstand your relationship; in other words, pretend you are not his girlfriend if it suits him then claim it is a joke,3)he does not consider you his girlfriend since he does this in front of his friends; as if he wants to be able to say he is not dating you.While I don't know how long you guys have dated or how you got to be engaged, I will suggest you tread slowly with this guy. If possible, sit down and review your romance again and find out where you guys stand(you are already thinking of ending it) and ask tough and serious questions.After you get your answers and if you are satisfied with them, then stay together. But if you are not satisfied,and he won't give you clarifications, then you might have to think about ending it. I wish you the best.
2007-10-03 20:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...you are making a big deal of this. You are in fact the mother of his child so where the name may be irritating, it is in fact true. Since you obviously don't like it, sit him down and tell him. He probably has no idea it bothers you so much. If he's a jerk and this is just another detail that makes him so then deal with it accordingly but if he's a good guy and treats you right then it's worth communicating this to him. Communication is key to any relationship so talk to him. I'm sure he doesn't want to upset you. Hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-10-03 20:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by stax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly, you are making a huge deal out of it. It's things called a 'pet name,' and if you're getting so astonishingly ticked at just that, then maybe he should just kick you to the curb. I'd only wonder what things you'd get pissed off about when you got married.
He's joking. If you don't like it, just ask him to stop. You are his fiance. He wants to have his children with you - 'baby momma' is just a version of 'my to-be child's mother.' That's really not that bad.
You're blowing this up to be a big, huge deal when it's something so hideously trivial and small. This is definately not something to kick him to the curb about, and if you agreed to marry him and get pissed off enough to leave him for something so stupid, then you shouldn't be getting married in the first place - because this either means you have a lot of small pet peeves, or you are definately not really in love with him.
My advice? Don't get married if you're gonna blow small things like this up as if they were life-threatening ordeals.
2007-10-03 19:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Alexandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like his wierd way of showing affection is to annoy the crap out of you. Just except the nickname he'll probably stop calling you that and if not it is a pretty kool nickname,
ok baby momma!
2007-10-03 19:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Devin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell HIm.
If you are about to dump him,
and his is getting ready for marriage,
this is be a good time for some COMMUNICATION!
Be the good girlfriend and have dinner,
candles, all that romantic stuff (spurr of the moment)
And just thrash it out.
If this thing really, I mean REALLY annoys you
GOD GIRL! TELL HIM!
2007-10-03 19:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably does want a baby by u, or he's just doin that to show off 2 ppl. try 2 ask him why is he doing that 2 u and c what he says.
2007-10-03 19:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by NikOLLe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little immature and ignorant. Rude to call you this in front of people. Sounds to me like he's trying to insinate to people that you are pregnant already.
2007-10-03 19:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kim S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think your making a big deal out of this it's just a joke
2007-10-03 19:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is disrespectful. I have always hated that phrase. He is not giving you a name or your baby. Let him know that it bothers you and if he continues then I would rethink the relationship.
2007-10-03 19:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by CSSW 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"BABY MOMMA?"...
thats a weird nickname...i'd probably get offended by it. i don't like it AT ALL.
tell him how you feel about that nickname...
don't just let him call you by that ugly name.
btw, i have NO idea what it means...
2007-10-03 20:28:01 · answer #11 · answered by dancelikewhaaaat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋