he's an acquaintance of my dad's and i've had an obssessive crush on him for about a year now. he's on my mind 24/7 && i don't know what to do. i can't just get over him, i'm in love! :( he has no idea and i really wanna tell him my feelings. i want to be with the guy, i don't care how old he is. love is love. the #1 thing i'm attracted to is his personality. *sigh* he's so...wow. <3 i know i'm in love cuz whenever i see him i get butterflies in my stomach and my heart beats really fast...you know the feeling. :) he IS single, by the way. if anything ever does happen, i'll happily lose my virginity to him && i don't CARE if i get pregnant. i want his baby!!! wow...i'm losing it...:( love HURTS, man. anyways...what should i do? ugh. now i'm crying. :'(
2007-10-03 01:14:45 · 8 answers · asked by ANONYMOUS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm sorry if the question's confusing to you. i've been up all night and i can't sleep cuz i can't stop thinking about him. :(
2007-10-03 01:16:31 · update #1
obsessive* typo.
2007-10-03 01:18:46 · update #2
who are you to tell me i'm not in love? just because i'm 15 doesn't mean i can't be in love...
2007-10-03 01:20:12 · update #3
Hahaha... you can't be serious! I honestly hope you are joking. You want to have his baby at 15??
First off, he is WAY too old. Second of all, you shouldn't be having anyone's baby at the age of 15..... you shouldn't even be considering it! Second of all, you are too young to know what love is. I don't doubt you may have a crush on him, but it is just that: a crush. Find someone your own age to be the object of your affection.
I say tell him you love him and see what he says. (I'm guessing you'll get the same response I just gave you.)
2007-10-03 01:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok!! we have alll been there ... I had a crush on one of my dads friends too when I was around 15/16 BUT!! girl ... you have to let that feeling go ... Nothing will come out of it ... listen I am 26 and I can tell you that ANY 30 year old man that involves him self sexually with a 15 year old girl has something wrong with them ... this is not a stab at you sweetie .. although I know you feel like you are ready for such a relationship, mentally you are not prepared for what a 30 year old man has to offer you ... Now if you tell this man how you feel he is going to think its cute and be a little embarrassed and that's it ... Your talking about how you want to give him your virginity and have his baby ... GIRL YOUR 15
JUST WAIT!! you have sOOOoooo much time to think about that kind of stuff ... I'm not saying you are to young to be in love ... because you are not to young to be in love .. BUT honey you are to young to feel that way about a 30 year old GROWN MAN!! have your crush that's fine ... BUT trust me it will pass as soon as a cute guy your age comes along and sweeps you off your feet ... and hey you know what else .. when I see my dads friend the one I had a crush on...I laugh to my self cause NOW that 30 year old is 50 and he does not look so good anymore ...
Good Luck ...
2007-10-03 08:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are only 15 it could be love but i would'nt go and tell him how you feel about him as he could and most likly go back and say something to your father I once was in your sitiuation and it was'nt pretty keep it secert it is the best you never know someone else will come along and sweep you off your feet just keep yourself available you never know what might happen in the long run but yes love can hurt but it only makes us girls stronger but please don;t let on that you like him as then it could realy hurt and age does matter some times
2007-10-03 08:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it.s called puppy. love in time it will pass and to have a crush on a man that age is normal but dont ever go with a man that age he. as well you could get in very big touuble
2007-10-04 00:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
must be crazy man..ur kiddin right?need a psychatrist ya if ur seriously!!
on a serious note plz no..it always happens ..butterflies and all and thngs lik dat..we all hav been thru it ..nope plz search sumone closer to ur age..i don thnk he sees u in dat way at all...
2007-10-03 08:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by ¢υтєgαℓ яσ¢кz 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's hot.
I love older men too.
2007-10-03 08:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guesse what u have no chance with him he twice as old as u he is old . no ewww. and u r not in love it isn't like that
2007-10-03 08:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Claire T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok sounds kinda familiar...
will it cause trouble if you tell him?!
something tells me it will...
if its love though perhaps you should xxx
just be careful you dont get hurt...
2007-10-03 08:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Colle =] x 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋