2007-10-03 00:28:49 · 14 answers · asked by kiwiman65 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's 17 ....If you must be with her , At least wait until she's legal ..
I'm not trying to be rude here but i find that absolutely appalling , i would never let a man that age , anywhere near my underage daughter .
What could a 17 year old girl possibly have in common with a 41 year old man? it must be lust , not love .
2007-10-03 00:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend, what matters is "Facing the reality". Think about what will happen in another 10 years time. You will be 51 and she will be in her shining 27. During this 10 years period you will be in "Real Life". If you are married or unmarried, the problems will remain same.
When people are in love, particularly when your are not still living together, you do everything and anything to make your loved one happy. You dress well. You speak kind words. Most importantly you meet eagerly for sex, if you are already in that momentum. When you start living together, each other will understand reality. Sex will probably become secondary or tertiary. Other things like general behaviour come on to the surface. In another 10 years time, you will be sexually inactive but she will be in her peaks. In another 10 years your sexual and other human desires will be in two extreme ends.
Understand the reality. Loving is all right. But my word is " Do not start things which you can not complete"
2007-10-03 07:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by INDRAJITH S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she aware of your feelings for her? Does she reciprocate? Or does she just think that you are a nice older guy? Is she mature for her age? There is no simple answer to this. The short answer is that she is too young for you. This isn't to say that it won't work, but you would have to provide a lot more information before anyone could offer you any meaningful advice, or encourage you to do anything other than leave her alone. You say that you are in love with her. Be careful. Powerful emotions can cloud your judgement. You are treading on thin ice. I would strongly recommend that you do not let her know of your feeling before you have thought this through clearly, and in the cold light of day. Good luck. And I know how hard it is for you.
2007-10-03 07:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing.. find someone else matured enough to love u back.. not that age matters but dude??? she is only 17 and then this cant possibly be love .. once she is may be say 20 things might take a diff turn for the good or worse.. and then when u r confused or in doubt .. wats the point in pursuing the confusion?????? love should be transparent man not confused...
2007-10-03 07:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by brinell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work, but you will need to be patient as she has alot of maturing to do. Are you willing to allow her to grow and make her own decisions about education and children? Do your families and friends support your relationship. Do you mind people always thinking you are her dad?
Take your time and let her steer the relationship.
Good Luck.
2007-10-03 07:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to old to be with a girl that age. That is probably illegal, do you realize that she could be your daughter?? I think you should mature a little bit and find someone your own age.
2007-10-03 08:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by whozyomama778 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUP, another PERVE!! If a 41 yr old man came near my girls, it would trigger a rash of legal problems for him, that would make his grankids pay the $$defense attourneys$$ RUN, man before you get even stupidier than you already r!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-03 07:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She is way too young for you and its not legal. You are half her age anyways. I wouldnt go for it. She needs to be concentrating on here education and dating men her age. Sorry I think you need to be a man about it and move on.
2007-10-03 07:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is illegal for you to be in love with a 17yr old girl.
2007-10-03 07:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by deweyhighschool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
u w love her till u die coz she more beautiful then now but
u w be more old then now then may be she not like
she go for young man of her age ad that time u w be alone
so think about it before u love her
2007-10-03 07:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by smile 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋