Single mothers???? Would you rather the father of your child spend more or less time with them???

Answer 1

I'd like my ex to come over more often to get my son. I think it's important for him to have that male influence.

I did receive a great compliment the other day, though. I was told that my kid is a shining example of how kids can still be well balanced without a father figure around the house. It made me smile.

Answer 2

if the mother is single its for a reason. If the guy its a good guy and responsible, then a mother is going to want to have the child spend time with him. But if its not, then probably not. Sometimes a single mother might feel some bitterness against the father of her child and out of selfishness won't let them spend much time together. It all depends on how the father is in the end.

Answer 3

My children's father does not see his children. They are just as happy with out them. They have not seen him since my youngest son was two years old. I would like him to see more of them, but he is on drugs and drinks to much. Which was most of the reason we are divorced. I left their Dad cause I wanted them to have a better life and not have to be around drugs and drinking the entire time they are growing up. In my heart I know I made the right choice. Their step father is more of a father to them than he would ever be. He had a chance to get straight and didn't

Answer 4

it depends on the what kind of daddy he is. my daughters father is a loser. he has no job and didnt even come to her 1st birthday. to children those things mean a lot.. personally i do not want her spending any time with him. if he can grow up and get a job and be a man it would be different. and it breaks my heart that this beautiful child we both created isnt enough for him to get off his *** and be a man!!! so to answer your question it depends on the dad if he is responsible or not. u know some women do keep their children from the dad just despite him and i think thats wrong because a lot fo daddys love their children and deserve t be part of their lives.

Answer 5

more time being a single mother my self i love it when the father of my children come and see them as it makes relisie that he still does love them but it depends on the sutition to if the father was abuses then no i would'nt let the children see them but if it was a suition like mine where the aggrement to seperate was equal then yes by all means let the father see his kids as the saying goes a child needs their daddy but when the children get older then it is up to them to make their decisions on weither they want to see their father or not

Answer 6

Well I'm not a single mother as you know, but if I were I'd say less just because I don't like him so much right now. lol Seriously tho, you should get more, she would be stupid not to give you that.

Answer 7

i would like my sons dad to spend more time with him- as he hasnt seen him since our son was 3 weeks old- he is 16 years old now but yet again ex hads put other peoples needs before those of our son - my son at an age where he knows he is being neglected and hates his dad - sometimes i dont blame him for feeling this way not particularly fond of him myself anymore-

Answer 8

rather they spend time with them but if they dont want to then no reason to have the kids be around the jerk when he wants nothing to do with them because they are taking up his time ..its his loss not ours well not there loss he should go away an never come back

Answer 9

a father who cares and who supports his children has just as much right to see his child as the mother.

BOTH parents usually love and adore their children (yes, there are exceptions).