The reason i ask is because my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 2 years ago, and ever since then ive been getting on with my life and enjoying myself. I've joined the gym and have made soo many new friends. Life is great!
Last week i got a call from my ex. She told me she wants to be my friend because i dont speak to her (she cheated on me). I know she got with another man after she got with me, but i get the feeling they've broken up.
I think she regrets breaking up with me, have you guys ever wished you never broke up with someone you was with?
2007-10-03 01:57:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she broke up with you and you're perfectly happy with your life now, don't let her back in. It'd probably be a big mistake and why give her the satisfaction of knowing you'd take her back just with a snap of her fingers--I know you didn't say you were going to go back out with her or anything though, I'm just saying. But nope I never wished I hadn't broken up with anyone. If I did break up with people, I had very good reasons.
2007-10-03 02:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! Its been 6 years and I still cant get this guy completely out of my system. I mean, I'm good for most of the time, but I get my days where I'm like , Damn I wish we'd never split up or at least got back together. I cheated on him too, but I was young and dumb. Time changes things and people.
But I have to live with the fact he will never take me back. We still talk every now and again and sometimes we even go out. I just have to realize it'll be nothing more than that.
2007-10-03 02:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I wished I didn't, but I didn't go back to him either.
In your case where you've moved on with your life and have gotten over her and she has been with other guys and cheated on you - I wouldn't trust her or what her motive is right now. I would let her know life is great and I am not going backwards - I am going to see what life has to offer at this time - in the meantime if she wants to remain friends I would consider her an acquaintance not and intimate.
2007-10-03 02:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by justaboutpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning, specific I even have had my heart so broken that i wanted i'd die. No you will by no ability think of of her and smile. you may bypass on. i understand that's truly stressful and it will take alot of time. however the discomfort won't final continuously. it could take a months even years to recover from her yet you will and could be greater suitable than happy after. To make it much less complicated, p.c.. up a clean activity, for me it grow to be motor vehicle mechanics, bypass out with friends, meet new human beings. TIME is often the excellent healer. good success And with the help of ways, do not attempt to stay friends together with her, that's going to in basic terms make the discomfort worse.
2016-10-20 21:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never done that. I am a person who plays hard to get withme. Sorry to say that, but they have to prove that they want to be with me not for one thing. Lot's of other guys want's to date me so I ask then questions and if I don't like there answeres or how they talked back to me it depends on how they react to all of it. So I have never done that at all.
2007-10-03 02:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... I made a quick decision and left my daughters father 5 months ago. I was overwhelmed and stressed out. I thought it was the right decision.... but now 5 months later I miss him and love him more then ever. I have to see him everyday due to taking my daughter to his house... He tells me he wants to be back with me... But our living situations are screwed up right now. Honestly I think hes telling me he wants back with me just to make me feel secure/better. The truth is I think he moved on.
2007-10-03 02:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I broke up with someone before and regretted it, but there are always GOOD reasons for breaking up... and sometimes we are better off without the person, even if we still have feelings.
We can even love someone who just isn't very good for us.
take care ok?
2007-10-03 02:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have but i believe these things happen for a reason and it just wasnt ment to be. So moving on with your life and not looking back is the best thing to do, even if its not easy at times.
2007-10-03 02:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been dumped and wish I hadn't, and I've dumped and wished I hadn't, (because now I don't know where they are). But a mutual break up? No regrets.
2007-10-03 02:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we look back we only remember the good times, if you get back together you'll remember the bad ones soon enough.
2007-10-03 02:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋