Husband gave me STD.Has anyone else ever experianced this?I think I should go.He says he is sorry but I was very sick.And I feel that God gave me another chance.He claims it will never happen again.But I don't trust him:(
2007-10-03 01:16:14 · 21 answers · asked by Pretty dark skin girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ick! First off, he cheats on you like a dirty dog! Then he doesn't even have an ounce of respect for YOU to put on a condom!?!? If you take him back, don't cry to your pastor when he gives you HIV!!
That's disgusting. And, yes, it WILL happen again. Don't be foolish.
*sigh* You're going to take him back. Women always do. Don't say you weren't warned.
2007-10-03 02:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-31 10:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets see....you can't trust him=#1 reason to move on, and #2 you got an std. This is crazy, he cheated and was unprotective. This could lead to him getting some hoochie pregnant. This means he's cheating w/smuts thats passing this std. Why put your life on the line for someone thats only jeopardizing it?? You got that std for a reason....to find out, so that you can do something about it. Don't set your self up for something else...something that may not only make you feel sick, but can take your life. You may love him, but what type of love is that for you? You should love yourself enough to care about your health. (Especially if you have any little ones to care for. How can you care for them if you end up needing care yourself cuz you're too sick.....?) I say, things happen for a reason, but it's up to us to learn the lesson from it. Now, what have you learned...? Good luck, God Bless, and I hope that you are feeling better.
Wow...I just read "Bonnie's" answer, so it made me check your profile. I, too, read your previous asked ?'s and I gotta say....sounds like you definately are with "A LOSER", but the sad thing about it is that so far you have done nothing about all the drama he brings your way. If you choose to stay w/him, regardless of the drama, then maybe you should be the one telling him that he needs protection w/you. That is, if you care about yourself at all. Good Luck and God Bless.
2007-10-03 04:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My EX-HUSBAND didn't give me an STD but he did get another girl pregnant at the same time I was pregnant... She had a miscarriage and we worked things out... until he met a 16 yr old that he fell in love with ... then me and my 2 children were sent packing... don't trust him honey... Do you want to get something worse than a STD? My only thought about the wasted 10 yrs in my life was... After all of those 14 women that he cheated on me with... I could have gotten AIDS... Good luck!
2007-10-03 01:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by daniegirl917 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think it is time for you to look at your relationship. He slept with another woman with NO protection and in turn you got an STD. If you still love him then you need to work together on the trust issue. I really think it would be better to end it and send him packin....once a cheater always a cheater....
2007-10-03 03:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he mean it will never happen again? Most STDs are diseases that not curable. He will have it for life and so will you. And did he just get the STD? Sounds like he was cheating!
2007-10-03 01:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by *Almost ready* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satisfied Mind is the only one in my opinion who has answered this question correctly. We do not know the type of STD that he gave you. Therefore, we don't know if it's something that has been dormant for awhile. Plus, some "STDs" can be passed on through non-sexual contact.
There's not enough evidence in your question to suggest that you should leave your husband immediately.
2007-10-03 01:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
He gave you an STD which means two things; 1) he cheated and 2) he didn't use protection.
It's time to leave him!
2007-10-03 01:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by Spring 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some STD's are not just by sex with another person, you don't say which one it is. Talk to a doctor first.
For instance, many people get herpes from their family or just from kissing. The disease might be dormant for decades too.
Did you ask him if he cheated? Did He?
LD
2007-10-03 04:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sooo sorry! I agree you should go. He didn't just cheat. He cheated without protection with some nasty you know what!!! Then he came back and gave it to you. It could have been worse! He could have given you HIV. You're right to not trust him. How can you?
2007-10-03 01:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋