he have to get sombody else meaning to take all he have to give... can it be he just not happy in his relationship he just there for the kids
2007-10-03 18:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, hes using u and getting a cheap thrill. He doesnt love u. who is he with? who has his last name? his kids? His credit cards, his bills? who makes his bed and does his laundry? His wife not u. Ur just a bit of easy p*ssy.
2007-10-03 18:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by lirpa 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I am doubting that he is staying in his marriage, "just for the kids". That's the excuse that many men give when beginning an affair. Because it sounds good to women.
Think about this: Who is he sharing a bed with most nights? Who is he taking to dinner most nights? Who is he taking vacations with? Who is he spending Thanksgiving and Christmas with? Who is walking in the park with? Who is carrying around a wallet full of credit cards that he's paying for? The answer is, his wife. What are you doing? My guess is that most days you anxiously await his phone calls to find out when he can sneak away to meet you for an hour or two? You wait all day for a phone call like that. Then you go somewhere where you won't be recognized -then have sex and he goes home to his nice home and sleeps next to his wife. If you were in a horrible accident and were hospitalized or needed care after being released, do you think he would be there with you constantly?
I am not trying to be mean to you, but I think that you are selling yourself short. If you read the posts in this topic, you will see that relationships that begin as affairs seldom work. Cheaters are always cheaters. You won't be able to trust him to not cheat on you, if he ever does leave his wife. You are setting yourself up for a lot of heartache. If you found the love of your life, married him, and had kids with him, how would you feel if another woman stole him away from you? I bet, completely heartbroken. Do you really want to do that to someone else?
I think that you know this is not a good situation or you wouldn't have posted this question.. Have some self respect and move onto a relationship with a man who really wants to be in a committed relationship with you and you alone. Everyone deserves that!
2007-10-04 10:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Susan D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's the role you accepted when you got into that type of relationship. Did you expect respect? Come on. You're not special, you were just willing. Act respectfully, and you might get some respect. He owes you nothing (respect, devotion) because you let him know it was not a priority for you when you agreed to be his "mistress"...and you knew it was not important to him when he approached you for this type of relationship. Quit whining about someone else's husband and get to a place in your life where you feel you are worth more than a cheap thrill for someone who's telling you he's seeking other cheap thrills.
2007-10-04 01:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well you have wasted a year of your life by being his little something on the side!!! don't think he is just with his wife for the kids and he loves you so much,he doesn't!!! he told you that by saying what he said!!! dump him and stay away from married men there is no future in it!!! besides he is a player if he is cheating on his wife you can bet he is cheating on you with his wife and maybe someone else too!!! get over it and get some respect for yourself he is a LOSER!!!good luck.
2007-10-04 01:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by dixie58 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how old are you??? first you catch a STD and pass it on to him.. then you find out ... HE COULD OF PASSED IS ON TO HIS "BABY MOTHER" wow, you must be blind.. obviously he is still having sex with his WIFE. You on the other hand is just his easy access. HUN think about it. He is treating you "so good"for SO MANY REASONS i can give u some... GETTING SEX and MUST have you tied around his finger so you wont go crazy and tell his wife about yourself... JEEz. situations like this make me so angry. WHy are ppl so slow? leave him. you shouldnt have been with him in the first place!
2007-10-04 10:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please find some single man. Dont spoil and another women and your own life for a cheap person like him. These men are bast**d. Take Care of yourselves, may be let his wife know what he is upto and just slap on his face and walk away with some one good.
2007-10-04 01:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by Hey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i saw your other questions..like my uncle told my aunt when she asked why was he a male whore in their younger days.."I went out a slept with whores, but I was not a fool, I knew who was my wife and I kept you at home because you respected yourself." That might be what he is telling her...GET YOUR OWN MAN..that man is not leaving his kids nor their mother. Your too good 4 that.
2007-10-04 16:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart. you need to leave this man along . all he is doing
is play you. he said it if he not with you then he will be with someone else. he a looser and time to move forward , because he not right and the bull that he just staying for the
kids is crap. he a lier and cheater.
2007-10-04 01:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheat your being used. Leave this man and find a better man who isn't married. You shouldn't be sleeping with another woman's husband.
2007-10-04 01:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by CJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him. He is MARRIED. That is your cue to leave him alone. He may cheat elsewhere and that is his business, but why would you want to be party to destroying a family?
If he truly didn't want to be married...he wouldn't be.
2007-10-04 02:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋