me and Nate are boyfriend and girlfriend 4 a week. he likes to playfully flirt with guys and girls. (being Bi i can understand that ) and this guy thats gay hates me by saying " **** u u whore" "u *****" "**** you" and is all over Nate. Well during th period (high school ) he got a note from him saying i want to go out with you ( hes gay ) and i looked happy. but i really feel upset...i don't know if i should let him go or fight for the guy i love. ( me and him are like hugging and kissing eachother alot) but i'm nervous to ask him if he wants to date him... ( i'm emotionaly unstable so its kinda hard ).....i need some good help... i'm listening to Linkin Park "Valentines Day" and its making me feel like i should give him to Junior.....what should i do
2007-10-03 17:59:16 · 13 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly, if music could explain the nature of the human psyche, there would be a lot of highly educated people out of a job. Ignore music at all costs.
Secondly, if you care about him fight for him. Ask him about the guy, tell him how you feel.
As for being emotionally unstable, that is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you predict that a rejection will destroy you, send you into a terrible place, odds are it will. I don't usually suggest positive thinking, because it kind of sickens me, but in this case it sounds like a pretty good idea.
2007-10-03 18:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Exosus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a second: Some gay guy asked your bi boyfriend out and you looked HAPPY? WTF? You're just gonna let Ms. Thing (yeah, I know he's a guy) steal your BF? If you want Mr. Nate to be your special sweetie, you'd better sit him down and tell him how you feel. He's a young bi guy so he might not want to be tied down, just letting you know.
You're in a tough situation AND you listen to Linkin Park. I feel sorry for you.
2007-10-04 01:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you are a teen-ager, but can I first say that unless you are bi-sexual, you truely should not be invovled with him. He will never be able to love you the way you want him to. Not only do you have to worry about other girls, but other guys too. You are too young, and there are too many straight guys who would probably love to date you. If you start to settle for anything and anybody now, you will always settle in life. Don't limit yourself like this. It's not worth it, if he wants to be with guys let him go by hisself and find you someone who will be into you and you only.
2007-10-04 01:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by cjc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant "keep" someone. If they want to leave they will. if your emotionally unstable you shouldnt be in a relationship anyway!! Also your not in love after a week of dating. In time you will learn that! Let him go. Find yourself a nice strait guy. At least then he can have guy friends and you wont worry about him hooking up with them!
2007-10-04 01:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by kris h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends how you feel about it since you are upset and dnt want him to be with another person then just talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you love him so much and you would feel awkward with him being with another person and that you kno that he wouldn't like it if you were going out with someone else at the same time and just see how it works out and if he agrees then good but if he doesn't maybe he isn't worth getting all stressed ovr
2007-10-04 01:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just becuase he is bi, is no excuse for him to be fooling around weth other people, an ur emotions when he is ur boyfriend. im bi myself so i know that for a fact. i thenk if Nate doesnt love u, it wud be better to ask hem now na end it before u fall more in love weth hem an he breaks ur heart by cheating on u ⥠gud luck n_n
2007-10-04 01:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he shouldn't need to date a guy when he has you fi u make each other happy.. i kinda had this situation my bf was bi and basically i ended up having to bi bfs because they wanted to date each other and do stuff it felt weird knowing they were with each other.. i think he shouldn't need to date the guy.. i wouldn't allow it because it's just gonna hurt u in the end mainly if he likes the guy more than u in the end..
2007-10-04 01:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him and want to be with him don't let him go. Just keep in mind you've been dating a week. Sot aht doesn't exactly make you exclusive.
but if he wants to date someone else that should show you where his feelings are for you.
2007-10-04 01:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've let him go the first time you and the gay guy were arguing
2007-10-04 01:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Wallaceboi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of it now
2007-10-04 01:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋