Want answer from married men & women only...
2007-10-03 19:35:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can answer only for myself.
In my case to the most part yes, of course there are always times you wish you were single, but I find I am happier in this marriage than I have been in any relationship before.
Find the right partner it is perfect, find the wrong one and clear the decks. This is number 2 for me but it has lasted 17 yrs and still going strong so I think it may be regarded as a good marriage.
2007-10-03 19:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rational Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Especially not when the first few years are over. There are good and bad times in every marriage, and often you are very unhappy. But there are couples who work really hard to work through their problems and they have a chance at making it. And that is what makes a good marriage. Being always happy is not possible or even healthy, content maybe, but there are too many influences inside and outside of us that make constant true happiness impossible.
Also, you never should depend on another person to make you happy, if you are happy as a single person, then you will be as a married person too. It's not good to get married to feel validated, as it will never happen.
2007-10-04 02:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Llani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not easy. Anyone who tells you it is is either a newlywed or a liar. I love my husband dearly, and would walk to the ends of the earth for him. BUT, it takes a LOT of commitment to truly give yourself and everything about you to another person. Marriage is not something you can just walk away from, and many people do not understand that. I am happy, but there are fights, there are disagreements, and there are days when I wish I never would have said "I do". Then again, there are many more days when I look at my husband and I think "Wow, I'm the luckiest woman in the world".
2007-10-04 02:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by munkees81 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not being married that decides whether you're happy or not. It's the relationship and the people in it and it's very hard work and for every up there is also a down.
2007-10-04 02:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more so than any unmarried person. Marriage comes with a whole new world of problems and challenges. It's not the blissful wine and roses that some make it out to be. That's why folks are often disappointed when they first tie the knot and it's not "happily ever after"
2007-10-12 02:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by Habanera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear if you are married it does't mean that you are happy because life is a mixer of happiness and sorrow. But it's sure the after darkness there will be light and after light there will be darkness, so face it. Life is nothing just a journey and in this journey we have to filfil our responsibilities in any ways.
2007-10-04 07:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by MEENA M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being Happy is depends on how a person appreciate the things they have.... I believe every couples have their own problems... but if they can compromise, and being gratefull of what they have, thats the key of their happiness.
2007-10-04 02:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by "LuckyStar" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am extremely happy.. you just have to know the person you love, respect each other and with good communication, you'll be happily married!!
2007-10-04 02:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by brwnsuga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't get me wrong it's not always rainbows and butterflies, we both put a lot of work in to the relationship, which is why I am happy, because it's not just me who wants it to work, it is him as well.
2007-10-04 05:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i cudnt answer to it
but its not tat whoever is married is unhappy n rest r all happy...depends on the nature of both women n men.
understanding is necessary
2007-10-06 08:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by preeeeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋