Would guys rather see in the girl in person than talk on the phone?

Question

CLOSE friends for years and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with (both in our 20's and gave him his first kiss; no sex just kisses) BUT "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made us drift apart (he pushed me away) and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)

in the beginning as friends we would always be on the phone talking almost every night - we enjoy each other 's company. we've been growing up and changing and now the phone isn't really the best way to "talk" and see what's up with him; esp. after that "thing" we had - i called him today wonderin where he was and if he could mt up for a min and he said he had to work BUT said he was goin to be studying all day tomorrow and said he would be down for "hanging out" then - good?

Answer 1

YES!
that's a good sign..though i'm not sure if he's really into u 100%..cause if he does..he'll will find a way..even a minute to see u in person..but i do know this..when a man love a girl so much an sort of chasing her..it can cause the girl to find someone else, so we tend to keep most of the love to ourselves.. so in your case,just ask him directly what u are to him..but i do think if a man loves someone so much.. he would rather see the girl in person if he is nearby(in the same town)

Answer 2

Unless the guy is real shy or insecure, he would rather see the girl in person. The best thing you should do is to agree with him that you will be pretty busy and have studying/working, or whatever to make you not appear available all the time. Put some mystery into your relationship. It's good if he wonders, hmmmm, I wonder what she is doing and why I haven't heard from her! Let him have a chance to chase you.

Answer 3

Most guys hate to hang on the phone. They don't know what to say to keep the conversation going. They tend to be much more relaxed in a person to person situation. Beside, if you have said everything on the phone, then there is nothing left to alk about when you get together!!

Answer 4

I'd rather see in person, but every guy is different (just like girls.) ask the person what he prefers, it could be a good conversation starter as well ;) good luck.

Answer 5

yes i would prefer to talk to a girl face to face than on the phone, and on the phone the only upside is that it's a bit easier to talk to her about some things

Answer 6

yes... in person is better. Guys are visual creatures... women are auditory. "girls talk... guys gawk"

Men are inherently visual attuned. they need to see the expressions on your face instead of the trying to figure out if you were being sarcastic over the phone for instance.

Answer 7

Of course in person, people communicate through body language almost as much as through speech.

Answer 8

absolutely! i also tried to have some sort of relationship w/ a guy before! everytime i call he didnt answer any of my calls! then after few hours here he's come knocking at my door telling me "c'mon let's bout now that i'm here"

Answer 9

yes

Answer 10

Good