Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

What types of things do women do that let you know they are not wife material? What do they do that you just love? What do you look for when determining to proceed in a relationship? Thanks everyone!!! Love ya!!!

2007-10-03 16:43:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 16:43:37 · 10 answers · asked by carlis b 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so how can i ask my mom and prove to her that it would be a great decision to order an ipod touch online so i could get it in less that 3 days instead of waiting till they r in stores..and who knows they could even be out of stock for 2 more weeks. Please help me prove to my mom that i really want one and that if she were to order me one it would be GREAT! what can i say to pursuade her?????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2007-10-03 16:43:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm in an unhappy marriage. I married her a year and half ago. At the time we got married she had two kids: 2 year old and a new born (now a 3 year old and a 17 months old).

Everyday is a constant struggle. There is no happiness left. We fight endlessly. I started having thoughts of leaving few months ago. The more we go in this marriage, the more I realize there is no future.

The only thing that keeps me is that my wife and her two kids are dependent on me. She doesn't work, but she gets $450 a month child support for one of the kids. If I leave, they got no else to support them.

I confessed my feelings to my wife. She's very hurt. She refuses to be rational and rather be emotional about it. She's almost begging for me to stay. I told her that I wouldn't leave before making sure her the kids are ok.

She got a family that used to support her but she doesn't have a healthy relationship with them any more. If I stay I'm miserable. If I leave I'll die of guilt.

Serious answers please

2007-10-03 16:40:46 · 28 answers · asked by jimmyaven 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she takes good care of me I had a stoke in 1999 she's my soul mate

2007-10-03 16:39:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have found this. They won't wear pink cause they think it's too girly and they won't admit to having a crush on someone of the same sex (not that I would want them too).

I think if your secure in your sexuality you wouldn't care how you are precieved by other guys and if you wear girly colors.

2007-10-03 16:34:17 · 5 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married and have a neighbor who is very attentive to me. Calls a lot, comes over for various things. Brings me food, he loves to cook, etc. Buys me things sometimes when he goes shopping, cause he says he "thought" about me. He isn't married, but engaged. I have also noticed he puts my husband down a lot, and the other day my husband made a comment that my "boyfriend"called, meaning the neighbor. This bothered me because ive never thought about him that way. Is my husband just seeing something i am not?

2007-10-03 16:31:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you broken-up with sumone cause ur head told you too but ur heart said don't let go and you listened to ur brain! I hate that I am in that situation and I just want to talk to him!!!

2007-10-03 16:29:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am addicted to the male phallus and I too am a male...I am not gay but honestly I feel like I LOVE the penis, but I am repulsed by my own actions behind my wifes back. How do I break it to my wife that I hate gays but I love men...and her...Please help.

2007-10-03 16:22:36 · 6 answers · asked by TheRazz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After many years of marriage, how does sex still feel good. For example, I always thought that the vagina stretches the more intercourse you have. I know there are exercises you can do, but after many years of sex, is it still enjoyable for both the man and the woman? Also, how do you keep the spark going?

Thanks

2007-10-03 16:22:22 · 17 answers · asked by florita 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What do y'all think about wearing a used gown? is is gross? bad lucK? Are used gowns a lot cheaper?

2007-10-03 16:20:17 · 14 answers · asked by J. D 1 in Weddings

he doesnt have a job but he make me feel like im the most important thing in his life and im falling for him hard. i feel like everyone around me is judging me for being with him like im wasting my time. but does it make him a bad person for not having a job.

2007-10-03 16:17:18 · 45 answers · asked by lilblondielj 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a kid who's parents went through a divorce and his step dad (the only dad he ever knew from 8 months old) took away his last name (when the boy was 15) claiming it wasn't "a legal adoption" and the boy wasn't acting like a (last name) -he wasn't handling the divorce so well. I believe this man with drew this boys identity the only name he ever knew. Interesting however, this step dad was adopted and his last name isn't even his by blood. I don't get how someone can do this to a child.

This kid doesn't want the last name unless it is given to him.

2007-10-03 16:13:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't have kids, but I keep reading about the stress of what kids bring into the marriages. I've been trying to have kids for 5 years and I'm starting to think that it's a blessing because I value kids even more now than those who were able to have kids so easily and find them a burden somehow.

2007-10-03 16:12:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Our marital home is in Belvidere, IL.

2007-10-03 16:12:23 · 8 answers · asked by Jeri V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

long story short.
brother=freshman in college
sister=junior in high school
me=middle school
over summer, parents were gone, parties were thrown with not good stuff happening, my sister befriended my brother's friends. months later, parents leave again, party thrown, brother caught, sister said she wasn't there even though she was with her friend...brother got in trouble, sister not. 2 months later, sister and brother go out when brother comes home for weekend from college, go to brothers friends apartment, go to a party, brother leaves, sister stays, gets caught, and recieves drinking ticket. i was told that i was not allowed to tell anyone because she could get kicked off swim team. now, she has a very strict curfew and is being really bitchy all the time, getting prescribed medcation because shes depressed because shes losing all ofher friends cuz of curfew. im saying all of this because...i really needed to tell someone and pour it out. and this is making me depressed because my si

2007-10-03 16:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I need some opinions on this one.My boyfriend and i have lived together for the last 2yrs.When we met we both knew that we wanted to be involved with someone who eventually wanted marriage.My question is how long should i wait for a proposall?We briefly discuss the idea but nothing has happend.We have had arguements regarding this situation and the generall answer is "Just wait you will get everything you want".What the hell?Please what would you do?

2007-10-03 16:11:22 · 15 answers · asked by do4107 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a temper. He didn't hit me but he goes into these rages where he's screaming at me. Am I in a domestic violence situation and what do I do?

2007-10-03 16:08:37 · 27 answers · asked by Deeva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 16:05:21 · 19 answers · asked by big d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It kills me right now that i can't say i love you to my family. Why is this?

2007-10-03 16:04:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am supposed to be getting a camera for my birthday for yearbook class, and my mom said when it came i could have it earlyer than my bday. the packages came yestarday and she still hasnt given it to me! and she promised! how do i ask for it with out her know ing i saw it??

2007-10-03 16:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by cutiee 1 in Family

The movie " I think I love my wife' Is it true that if you dont get 'any' that you get the wandering eye and find a sexual attraction for random hot womenz??

2007-10-03 15:58:48 · 18 answers · asked by All I have to do is dream... 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well i my mom and dad are still together but i hate my dad soo much. all he does is yell and hes soo mean to my mom, like if she doesnt buy him something he wants at the store, he leaves the store all mad and hes like a big baby. also he always yells at me and like today my stupid friend did something to our next store neighbors house and he said well he yelled to me , IM GONNA SPLIT UR HEAD WITH THESE SISSORS IN A MINUTE. he would never do ANYTHING to hurt me but he was just mad. and when i went up stairs crying, i heard him say that girl is soo stupid, n it just made me cry, i dont know what to do, i hate my life so much, and on top of that i hate a disease which makes it dificult to breathe everyday..... what do i do,

2007-10-03 15:55:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

25 yo adult child living at home. Family consists of me, father, and step-mother. They are having marital trouble, and I feel like I'm stuck in the middle. I don't take sides, but honestly, my dad is right 90% of the time. My mother has some personal issues that we have tried to tell her about, but she denies them and says that it is 2 against 1. They've been to counseling, other family members, but she just won't listen. It is hurting my dad and she is pushing me and him away, but she still denies any problem is with her. I'm at the point where I wonder if I move out maybe they'll get closer, but my dad doesn't want me to move out as he says that me being here gives him some peace, an outlet, and someone to talk to.

2007-10-03 15:55:29 · 3 answers · asked by florita 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So i think im falling for my organic chemistry professor. Im 19 and hes about 35. I cant help these feelings. Everytime I see him, I get all nervous and i can feel my heart beating faster. I cant stop thinking about him. Im starting to go to his office to talk to him. I think about him all the time. What can i do to stop these feelings!!!

Additional Details
He makes eye contact w/ me all the time, and asks me to visit him.


hes not married. Seems to me like hes flirting back.

2007-10-03 15:55:10 · 13 answers · asked by lost_in_afantasy 2 in Singles & Dating

Not planning to be in another one soon because honestly I don't need the drama right now but could do with some sex badly :( Jesus I wish women could be more like guys about this and have sex with whoever they want but then I'm sure "society" wouldn't approve. So whats a girl to do?

2007-10-03 15:54:42 · 4 answers · asked by hi 3 in Singles & Dating

Over the years, it got significantly worse. He is a veteran and the condemnation of men in society, and fathers and everything else has gotten him very angry. He talks in circles, it used to be when bad things happened in society, he could point them out and say how things should be. Now, even when good things happen, like a wedding, or a new birth, he finds recents or past news to contradict the good event. He wraps his logic around all of the injustices done to people even if he does not know them. The scary part is, he is making total sense, and me and his family can't even be around him without being brought down. He used to work, but quit work after 6 months since people are "so lazy and talk all day about stupid stuff" or "women sit there all day and talk about men and when he talks about them, he is the bad guy" Now, he is on disability, and is deteriorating fast. He is battling skin cancer, and his prognosis is 50/50. He has really slipped into his own world. What to do?

2007-10-03 15:46:45 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

The more I read on YahooAnswers, the more questions I see pertaining to "He cheated...", "She cheated..." or "I want to cheat..."

Blah, blah, blah. Maybe I'm old fashioned. Maybe because I respect my wife. Maybe I don't want to tarnish my honor. For these and many more reasons, I could never cheat on my wife.

Do I have a perfect marriage? Hell no! My wife is a total pain in the a$$ sometimes. I'm sure, I'm and insensative pr_ck too at times. We argue about kids, money, that I work alot, etc., etc.. Would I ever leave my wife? Hell no! I love her to death.

Heck, I figure we're married, it isn't supposed to be a bed of roses ALL the time. Why would I jeapordize everything my wife does for me just for sex?

My wife might be a pain in my a$$ sometimes, but she's MY pain in the a$$. I may be a total pr_ck sometimes, but I'm completely commited to my wife.

WTF is wrong with people?

2007-10-03 15:46:29 · 21 answers · asked by 2012, Change it back!! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How do u make a mum? complete details. im a newbie =) my mom's gonna make it for me since its so friggin expensive. is the mum the flower? and what supplies should we buy?

2007-10-03 15:40:06 · 2 answers · asked by whimsicality. 2 in Singles & Dating

ok im 16 and i like this girl and she 14 or 15? Well im a teachers aide for her class and we always tlk and well today she asked me if i had a GF and who i liked. Does this mean she likes me???

2007-10-03 15:38:44 · 14 answers · asked by K129 1 in Singles & Dating