After many years of marriage, how does sex still feel good. For example, I always thought that the vagina stretches the more intercourse you have. I know there are exercises you can do, but after many years of sex, is it still enjoyable for both the man and the woman? Also, how do you keep the spark going?
Thanks
2007-10-03 16:22:22 · 17 answers · asked by florita 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best sex I've had was after my wife gave birth to our son (not literally just after of course). If anything it felt tighter than before, and after a few months she developed better muscle control because of the exercises she was given after the birth.
2007-10-04 04:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by silverfoxdmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. I am not laughing at your question, I am laughing at an answer that someone gave you. "The vagina stretches from having babies natually" lmao lmao. Yeah that is true, but what woman dont understand is that it does stretch for a certain amount of time. And believe it or not, it bounces back. lol I have 4 kids so I know. Me and my husband have been together for 5 yrs and what do you know, the sex is still off the chain. You just have to know what your partner likes. and remember to try new things. Dont do the same things over and over. Because that is what people get tired of, it is not about the vagina. You have to keep your sex life fresh.
2007-10-03 16:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Luckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been together for 20 years and the sex gets even more amazing! The vagina is a muscle, keep it in shape with kegels and all will be fine.He should be doing them too! As far as keeping the spark going, I think it has less to do with sex and more to do with your passion for life. Keep yourself interesting to yourself and your partner will also find you interesting. Good luck :)
2007-10-03 16:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think having a baby is going to change that aspect of things. It is just not what it used to be.
Sure, sex can still be enjoyable after years of being together. Just add a little spice here and there, and be willing to try new things together. THat can make a big difference.
2007-10-03 16:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of books out there on how to keep the spark going. I have been married for nine years now and have a great sex life. Try being experimental. Ask him what he wants. And in return tell him what u want. Thats what seems to get my husband going.
2007-10-03 16:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by beanodom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the people above have said is all true, but as far as keeping the spark going. try different positions and maybe even places that you havent before. dont fall into a routine. surprise each other, lingerie, role playing, and get books theres are plenty out there on how to keep the spark alive in marriages. even the kama sutra im sure;) good luck!
2007-10-03 16:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by colostomy_punch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the vagina stretches after having a baby... and there is an actual procedure that tightens the vagina.. that being said.. as for the sparks.. have you ever explored the wonderful world of adult toys.. wow.. so hot.. so fun.. so good.. my hubby and i have been married nine years.. and we still love our sex life.
2007-10-03 16:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by ameygirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with the same man for 5 years and i still enjoy the sex and trust me we go on like rabbits but i tend to spice things out every once in a while play dress up, do oral do different thing, stuff you don't usually do.
2007-10-03 16:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by SEXY*CHICA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get the answer let me know!!! LOL Know really I have been married 4 years and the sex is still pretty good...as far as spark ummm I dont know, Im just as curious as you are about that one.
2007-10-03 16:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the vagina does not become loose from lots of sex. This is just another myth meant to deter women from enjoying sex. Kegels are good for stronger longer lasting orgasms for both sexes and for women who have given birth.
2007-10-03 16:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by some female 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋