So i think im falling for my organic chemistry professor. Im 19 and hes about 35. I cant help these feelings. Everytime I see him, I get all nervous and i can feel my heart beating faster. I cant stop thinking about him. Im starting to go to his office to talk to him. I think about him all the time. What can i do to stop these feelings!!!
Additional Details
He makes eye contact w/ me all the time, and asks me to visit him.
hes not married. Seems to me like hes flirting back.
2007-10-03 15:55:10 · 13 answers · asked by lost_in_afantasy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have him for 2 years! for chem
2007-10-03 16:04:35 · update #1
I'd recommend just getting to know him as a FRIEND. Who knows? That might actually cool your feelings down for him?
Sometimes it's easy to become obsessed with people we don't know very well because we can project whatever characteristics we want on them. So, generally it's a good idea to get to know them a bit.
Continue dropping by his office to chat. DON'T talk about him with other students; you'll probably end up gushing about him and rumors will start. After the class has ended, you'll either
A) Know him better and decide you're not really that into him or
B) Know him better and decide you ARE into him and will be in a better position to date, if you so choose. (Plus, class will be over and you won't have that conflict of interests.)
2007-10-03 16:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey your asking what should you do? I give you a answer that is plain and clear tell him how you feel but dont make it seem like your totally head over heals for him.
P.S. If ya'll do start a relationship don't tell nobody because that poor young man could lose his job.
2007-10-03 23:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Hank843 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are 19, you have so much life to live. dont get hung up on some guy that you will only see for a semester. im sure though he wouldnt mind getting a little something, and thats all it would be to him.
2007-10-03 23:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by rochesmk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion the age difference is not a problem but a teacher-student relationship will put a huge amount of pressure....
2007-10-03 22:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummmm, in case you haven't noticed, teachers/professors have been arrested for having relations with their student/pupil. But you may be old enough, so it might not matter to the law.
2007-10-03 22:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Colin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh baby! Is he hot? Flirt with him till he flirts back and tell him that I love him too! I'm not jealous, I like to share. LOL!
2007-10-03 22:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ummmm, thats kinda creepy...but if you really want to get into a relationship with him, wait untill ur not his student cuz you could get him fired or even arrested for having a realtionship with a student......
2007-10-03 22:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is and that's not good. You want to get over him? Think of your grandpa doing it. That should do it.
2007-10-03 23:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by mcdonaldsnuggetaustin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want him to keep his job
you will stop.
2007-10-03 23:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats just what you parents would love to hear.
2007-10-03 22:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by smooth_stalin 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋