My husband has no manners at all. Its like he was raised in a barn yard! He eats in the bed and wipes his hands on the sheets and his clothes even though there were napkins in his face, he smacks on his food very very loudly, he throws his dirty underwear on me every chance he gets, he digs in my nose and laughs about it, he digs in his underwear and smells his hand, he keeps hair in the sink constantly from shaving, he leaves dirty clothes beside the bed and waits for me to pick them up, and thats just to name a few. I dont even want to have sex with him lately. I love him, but am I shallow because i let this stuff irritate the HELL out of me?!?!
2007-10-03 19:57:33 · 8 answers · asked by Lovely 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hahaha!! Really? Why did you marry him in the first place?
2007-10-03 20:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
While my "other" isn't quite the SAME SORT of AWFUL as yours, he has enough bad habits to be irritating, too.
You are not being shallow. Bad manners shows a lack of respect (for both you AND for himself!) and thoughtlessness.
You don't ask, "what should I do?" so I won't tell you! Just know that you are NOT alone, and you are not shallow.
Have a polite day.
2007-10-04 04:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by wyomugs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU married this person.
Seek counseling to help you obtain a forum where your feelings can be heard in a productive manner.
What?
You'd think that Dear Abby would advise you to show him "this column".
You could buy him a gift enrollment in a gentleman's etiquette program.
You are correct however, I would not like to be a guest at your home with this unkempt, unmannered, disrespectful and obviously unloving, oaf.
2007-10-04 03:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by B C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not shallow, that's discusting and I wouldn't want to have sex either if my husband was like that, have you told him how you feel? He may not know, If you haven't told him you should, he may not think he's doing anything wrong.
2007-10-04 03:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not shallow. That does sound pretty disgusting. If a woman did it, it would turn any man off.
2007-10-04 03:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
gril it sounds like your married to my nephew, man can he be a pain in the ***. you just have to get in his face and put your foot down, just be careful he istn't the type type to get violent, let him know it pisses you off and your not going to take it anymore. are you his maid or his wife.
2007-10-04 03:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by mushroom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no honey you are not shallow. thats disgusting behaivior. i would drop that nasty dude
2007-10-04 03:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by California Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel.
2007-10-04 03:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by blackbomb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋