what's the best way to get an ex gf back????

Question

I know.."an ex is an ex, move on"..the thing is I can't move on right now..we're both in college now(same school and even have a class together) she's been partying a lot with her friends on the weekends and tries to act "cool" by doing so..I'm starting up with my own fun but I still can't ever get her out of my head..and when those silent and lonely moments come, I get depressed and miss her a lot all over again..I wonder if she still feels the same and why she doesn't try to talk to me as much as we used to(when we were broken up we still talked everyday but now it's like every other day and she doesn't text me nearly as much anymore)..what can I do to get her back?? and I know for a fact that I shouldn't be in this situation because I treated her like a princess and she should be wanting me back..but I dunno why I'm in the position I'm in.. sometimes I'll tell myself just move on but I just can't..for now at least..I need some help on how to get her back please..

Answer 1

I'm going through sort of the same thing, except I avoid her at all cost. The thing people dont realize is that, it doesnt matter how YOU feel, it only matters how SHE feels. No matter how much YOU love her, it doesnt mean squat to her. It sounds cold but you cant GET someone to love you; especially if you treated her like a princess and she still left.

No offense but if you tell yourself to move on (actually dont tell, just do it), and make an attempt to move on; ie. go out with your friends, other girls, etc. YOU WILL. I'm doing it right now. I love her and I still would give my life for her, but theres no way I'm getting back with her. The best thing to do is have absolutely no contact for a long time, dont check her facebook, myspace, or whatever; dont find out anything about what shes doing; until you are 100% sure you are over her.

There is no best way to get ex gf back, because people who ask that are usually the ones who are dumped. When you are dumped it doesnt matter at all what YOU do. So you have to get on with your life and make her see that you are better than she thought.

Good Luck

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Chicks always want something that they can't have.

If your always groveling at her feet she knows she can have you anytime and anywhere she wants.

Make her think that there is no way that you will ever take her back by breaking all contact with her. Blow her off. Don't make eye contact with her and never talk to her unless she talks to you first and then no more than a couple of words. If she steps close to you, step away. If she touches you, don't react.

Now, if you were that good to her, this sudden change in behavior should bother her and she may try and take measures to preserve some kind of friendship. That's if she has any appreciation at all for you having treated her well. Otherwise, she's just another one of them and they are not what you are looking for. They just go around breaking hearts of good guys like us.

Find a girl who can appreciate you. They are out there. They're not always the best looking girls but there are some good ones out there. Just make sure she can cook.

Best Wishes

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Answer 4

Sometimes, people just aren't fated to be together.

Why do you miss her? Ask yourself this question and do not think that it is rhetorical. Why, is it that you only think about her,

only when you're lonely and silent?

Is it because you are just not used to the fact that every other moment of your life there isn't anyone interacting with you and you just miss the interaction, and not the girl?

Why did you break up in the first place?

I know this is none of my business but hey, you asked it.

This reminds me of "What comes around goes back around" (Justin Timberlake). The "treated her like a princess" thing. Imagine if someone you don't like starts treating you specially. That person keeps interfering, butting, and trying to get your attention, but you just aren't interested...?

Yes. That's how your girlfriend would feel. Intrusion.

So, what I suggest is move on and get a new girfriend who wouldn't diss you.

Answer 5

that's unwell and he needs to end the relationship. His ex is comfortable with this? Thats purely unwell. She could have truly low self-well worth to think of its okay to be somebody's sideline chick. She could understand she merits greater useful than that. he's a jerk for permitting this habit. yet he does not choose to harm his modern-day gf? Yeah splendid. How does he think of she's gonna sense while she unearths out the fact? She's gonna throw a social gathering? i think of not! She's gonna be pissed on the shown fact that she had no say so in this twisted affair. he's sexin the ex and his modern-day....HELLOOOOO!!!! can we are saying illnesses and STD's waiting to take place? however the undesirable gf does not even understand! Thats completely not honest to her she could have a say in wether she needs to handle this relationship or not. He needs to return sparkling and speedy. when you consider that he needs to make certain and function intercourse along with his ex plenty then why don't you be together with her? yet atleast he needs to guy up and tell his modern-day gf hiya!

Answer 6

Well, there is hope because it CAN work out between you and her again. I am currently engaged with my 1st gf, we were on and off and stopped talking for a long while and now we are living together and want to get married soon. Your situation seems familiar, I think what you should do is give her a call and let her know how you feel. If she really loves you, and wants to go back with you, she will surrender and go back out with you. **hint , hint** use SWEET TALK, thats what I used and it works like a charm ;) . Well, hope that helps....it worked for me.

Answer 7

Why did you broke up in the first place? If you can resolve that issue, then you have your second chance.

Answer 8

move on, it looks like she already has

Answer 9

aww..i'm sorry. what happened? why did it end?