2007-10-03 19:51:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
So why do you care so much about what your parents think? Stand up for yourself and kick your parents to the curb. Better yet, kick them all the way to India.
2007-10-03 19:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a case to case basis, you have to ask yourself first if you love that person so much that you can leave your parents behind.? if yes, go on, if that person will give you total happiness, choose him. if in the future you made a mistake in choosing him atleast you yourself will be blamed. If you choose your parents, how if the person you loved became an almost perfect person and married other woman, which you will regret the rest of your life wondering if you were the one married to him. But if you have second thoughts of choosing him with reasons other than parents, choose your parents.
2007-10-03 20:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jess P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how important parents acceptance to you.
I faced the same prob in the past, and I was forced to choose my parents or him. It takes me sometimes to understand why they don't accept him. I realize, what my parents have adviced me are for my own good. Although it was such a pain to give up, but I am leading a happy life now.
To me,..although i can marry a guy that i love but losing the happiness i can have with my parents,..i am losing half of my life.
Aniway, everyone has different priority in their lives.
One should make her own choice.
2007-10-03 19:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by ReDevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to marry him, then do not marry him. Just say no.
In the long run, honesty is a kindness. Let him go, so that he can find someone who truly loves him.
2007-10-03 23:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Suz123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember one thing, this marriage would be between you and your man, not you, mom&dad and the hubby.
In the Bible, it says a man shall leave his family and be with his wife and her family, so if they do not like him, its their loss not yours.
Your parents will come around unless he is abusive to you or cheats on you, then they might have a point, otherwise, your parents raised you right, I am assuming, so remind them about it and you would not be making a bad choice as they taught you better.
Good luck
2007-10-03 19:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares what your parents think!! Stop being so old-fashioned. It doesn't matter what they think, what matters if your happiness. If it makes you happy to marry him, then do it. Just say to your parents, "I love him and I'm going to marry him, I don't care what you say".
2007-10-03 20:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 07:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you should ask yourself: Does he make me happy? Remember, its up to you on who you want to marry, not your parents. If he's good for you, then go for it.
2007-10-03 19:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by SomeoneUKno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still do everything your parents tell you to?
Grow up, stand up and act like an adult.
2007-10-04 03:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are adult and well place in life (I mean you have decent earning) you can go ahead and marry. Good luck and God bless.
2007-10-03 19:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋