After she caught me she left the apartment than in 3 minutes she was back, making a lame excuse to come back in. I covered up (somewhat) and that wasn't enough. She said it was OK she was cool with it. Last night she returned to our house and when we were alone she asked if she could see me dressed again more relaxed and in more detail.I am inmy 30s she is almost 19. What is the response? help!
2007-10-03 20:05:36 · 25 answers · asked by Larry G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on why you are crossdressing. Clinger (on MASH) crossdressed to get out of the army. Most others do it because they are sexually confused. Stick to your own gender - it's natural.
2007-10-03 20:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The reason why she wants to see if you'll dress up again is to find out if you are guilty of being a crossdresser or if you were just caught acting silly.
Tell her that she just caught you when you were doing something crazy because you were bored, but you don't normally act that way. Tell her that you are not a crossdresser, and you really don't like to play in woman's clothes, and she'll have to accept that.
If you dress up for her because she is "cool with it". Then you are telling her that you are a crossdresser. This will be a secret that an 18 year old cannot keep to herself. You can can count on her telling everyone that you are a crossdresser. Are you comfortable with that?
2007-10-06 09:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO, AND NO! For her to come back and ask to see you dressed up, there is an odd underlying reason for it. If she would have just said she was cool with it and left it alone, and you decided to dress up and it so happen that she was there or came in, that would be different. Her asking should have put up a red flag. And the red flag would say, NO! She is still young and impressionable and who knows what she is going through in her life right now. you wouldn't want to confuse her any further about herself. Just leave it alone for now, and take it from there.
2007-10-03 20:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Irishgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What? It's niece by the way if you don't know how to use spell check. I have a strong feeling that your niece is around the age of 10 if she reacted like that. First off, don't play dress up in front of your niece.... Or simply just don't ever do it again. Second, if she had a suspicion that you were cross dressing, you did a very bad job of hiding it. Good luck
2007-10-03 20:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL Sue I got very confused this morning with the clocks going back so just stayed in bed! I'll place an order for next week though. JK has a dirty secret? Make you a deal, I'll bring you breakfast in bed if you tell us!!
2016-05-20 07:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Why would you cross-dress in the first place?' ?? Yeah good question. Did you use both your brain cells to think that one up?
If this is your actual niece (ie the blood daughter of your sister or brother), then for the sake of family harmony, you should just not go there. Even if she is legal. You will get found out, and the crapola will hit the fanola.
Otherwise, it's really up to you.
2007-10-03 20:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and your neice need to have a good long talk.
Why does she want to see you dressed? (Don't even think about any sort of relationship of a physical nature!) She may genuinely want to understand. Also, you don't want her blagging to the rest of the family unless they already know.
On the plus-side your neice could prove to be a good friend. We all need someone to discuss things with and it's difficult to have a girly conversation if you're in male attire. She may even be able to help you with shopping and makeup!!
Good luck
2007-10-05 12:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is just curious.
The cross dressing is just a tad weird if ya ask me.
Ya know sooner or later she will tell someone in the family and it will get around, so I hope your prepared to answer a whole lot of questions.
Here is a motto to live by, if it feels wrong, it is!
2007-10-03 20:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good that she's an adult. However, the two of you need to sit down and discuss this. Why does she want to see you dressed up? What is she getting out of it? Why do you cross-dress and what do you get out of it? Without those answers it's just a bit on the side of weird.
2007-10-03 20:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by theory75 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo
2007-10-03 20:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋