2007-10-03 19:59:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I should have went to school and became a divorce lawyer. I could probably retire early.
2007-10-03 20:02:02 · update #1
Mama - If I become a divorce lawyer and you and your husband don't make it I'll represent you :)
2007-10-03 20:05:28 · update #2
Marriage isn't the problem. The problem is the people taking it so lightly.
2007-10-03 20:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by munkees81 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People marry because they realize that life is long and you want to be retired with a family and grandkids and someone who understands and loves you sharing your life.
For whatever reason, people don't want to get old without someone by their side; they don't want to still be dating and going to bars to meet people when they are in their seventies. They don't want to be sleeping alone when they are in their seventies. By the time they are in their thirties, if they haven't married yet, they're pretty tired of the bar scene and the constant attempt to court or be courted. They know that all around them, people are building families and homes together. They feel the pressure to do that themselves.
Already, in their thirties, they are dating divorced people and dealing with stepkids and stepfamilies and issues from the previous marriage.
But they continue to want to marry again anyway. Because they want their own families.
2007-10-03 20:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geting legally married is the law of the land and that is needed as assurance to the woman of her security to a man. careful study of charac ters and attitudes and everything should be done before the marriage. Do not just think of of the romance that will bring in marriage but everything should be in considereation to avoid devorce.
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2007-10-03 20:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do look to have learn an imprecise government learn, (over a era of 10 years and at a fee of purely $36.4 Billion) which concluded that marriage replaced into the type one clarification for divorce in u . s . a ..
2016-10-06 02:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everyone likes to think it wont happen to them....my husband and i refuse to let it be an opption, ever....but we've only been married 1 3/4 years :) So we'll see!
2007-10-03 20:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by TMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U were right about that, sometimes the relationships works better if they don't get married.
2007-10-03 20:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the rate is where its been for decades nothing wrong with people trying its better then not even giving it a chance.
2007-10-03 20:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people fall in love, you know (as opposed to falling in lust!) and they do want to spend their remaining days together and raise kids.
2007-10-03 20:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess they just want a chance to know if they're really meant to spend their whole lives together.
2007-10-03 20:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everybody grows out of relationships. They just run their course...
2007-10-03 20:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by California Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋