how would you act if the one you have been with for 8 years thinks you cheated on them with a friend that was staying with you for a couple days. The evidence makes you look like you are guilty and you cant explain some of it. you deny anything happend. How would you act if you were guilty and if you were not guilty. Remember this person is in knots and hurt but wants to beleive them but the evidence is unexplained.
2007-10-03 17:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by Richard L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know when i get nervous from what ever reason , i'll get gassy. i guess some stress juices come out to play in there. it feels like my stomach is boiling. well after that i can't hold it back anymore, i can let one go and i'll feel another one starting up in my stomach, next thing i know i'm blasting one or two every minute. well thats how guilt or stress affects me
2007-10-03 17:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is guilty I think there are two ways that person could act. 1) over compensate: offer to do anything and everything for the person, be nice to the extreme, and pretend to be happy. 2) Avoidance: this person would do anything they can to avoid eye contact, spend very little time in the same room as the other person, and/or keep their head down in shame around this person. If they are not guilty the most common action they would take is plausible deniability: maybe get upset for the accusations and try to prove otherwise or laugh it off until the situation passes. It depends a lot on the character of the person.
2007-10-03 17:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, there is no easy answer....
It really boils down to trust. It is possible for someone to cheat, and show NO signs of being guilty, and it is equally possible for a person to be innocent, and appear guilty. I've seen both happen within my own relationship.
It does really boil down to trust, and taking the word of the person that is suspected of cheating. You need to choose to believe that they are telling the truth, or choose to believe that they aren't. Unfortunately, if you choose the latter, it may eat you alive, because you may never know.
If there is enough doubt in the relationship that there is the belief that cheating is happening.... it might be time to look and see if there are deeper issues? Perhaps issues with personal self confidence?
I know how it feels on BOTH sides of this equation, and it is very VERY hard. I truly hope that you find peace with this.
2007-10-03 17:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by mamacita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so are you guilty or are you not?
if i wasn't guilty I'd act not guilty and if I was, I'd probably act guilty.
did you cheat on your partner and your trying to find out the best way to cover it up.
thats what sounds like, just tell the truth and then you have nothing to fear.
unless you cheated then your in the sh*t.
2007-10-03 17:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Cooter 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Act like you normally do. Maybe that person has issues and you can recommend counseling?
2007-10-03 17:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
for starters something from your typing isnt right on being honest with her .your wife . if you are stop while you can many marrages end over this . my opion?
2007-10-03 17:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not enough info
2007-10-03 17:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋