It doesn't work does it?
Do you think if you are still sleeping with your ex, your both in denial about still being together.
Should sex stop if the relationship isn't working out.
Would like your thoughts on this subject.
2007-10-03 17:46:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It should never have even begun if you were not married. Now here you are having given away a big part of yourself, and for what?
The entire country needs to undergo a big deprogramming from the harmful and destructive effects of liberalism. Truly, it is the plague of the modern era.
2007-10-03 17:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
In my last relationship, I lived with my ex boyfriend after we broke up. I was really miserable, and we had lots of ex sex.
Ex sex never works out for me. It ended up making me feel bad about myself because my ex didn't want to date me, he only want to have sex. That's not a good feeling. I'm not good enough to date, but I'm good enough to sleep with?? My self worth was at an all time low.
I think if you sleep with an ex, usually one person is doing it only so they can still date that person. The other is just doing it so they can have sex, but not have to deal with all the other dating issues.
I definitely advocate stopping sex when the relationship ends, it's just a good idea. Find a new person to sleep with or get a vibrator. Just do anything to stop the ex sex!
2007-10-03 17:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Leigh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are young then no i dont recomend it at all. There are too many feeling that are atttached especially if your a girl.
If you are older and really know what you are doing...18+ then ok
When i was in highschool i did and it got messy. Now that im out we still have sex occasionaly and its fine. He lives his life i live mine the only time we talk is to have sex. But it has taken a long time to get to this point.
Guys view sex diffrently then girls. You have to think like a guy (if your a girl) and keep from getting hurt.
2007-10-03 18:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't work. People who cling on to their exes are usually afraid of the unknown future romance or cant bear the thought of someone occupying their place in the doomed/rocky relationship with their partners. The important thing is to understand the meaning of engaging in sexual activity, does it mean it draws you both back together or it means both of you are pouring your fears and frustrations on sex as a source of comfort until you get a hang of things by falling in love again with someone new
2007-10-03 18:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by archie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two kinds of love, physical and emotional. you can still be physical with someone you used to love as long as you BOTH understand that it is STRICTLY a physical thing. having a physical (non-emotional) relationship with an ex helps you move forward safely into something else by allowing you to date (without sex) but have the pleasure with someone safe and familiar. but this is a slippery slope since sometimes it is almost impossible to separate the physical act with the feelings that sex used to generate.it can work, but i would say its 70/30 against it working for long without a full break-up or a reconciliation....
2007-10-03 18:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not dating any more, then you should really stop for the sake of your minds. you both are having it, which means you still feel towards each other, but you dont want to. a couple times after the relationship ends is ok, like a one last time thing, but after that it will just get bad for you two because he or you will want to get back together, and the other doesnt and so on
2007-10-03 17:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work if you outline from the start that you are f*ck buddies, and leave straight after the deed is done. That said, I wouldn't recommend it - it has the potential to get messy and hurtful very quickly, as you are essentially just using eachother for sex. Eventually someone may want more. To be avoided.
2007-10-03 17:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would depend on how you feel about your ex. I know that I had sex with my ex before. I didn't feel the same about him as we did when we where together, I see nothing wrong with it as long as you 2 are honest about the way you feel towards one another. Why break new one in when you can have sex with one that is already broke in and know what you like and so on...
2007-10-03 17:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never do that just because you are bringing up the past which obviously you don't want to be together so Why have sex? What if you got pregnant or something.wouldn't want that to happen and anyway I never believe in casual sex and you are just going to get hurt in the end.You are just letting him have his cake and eat it too.
2007-10-03 17:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he the ex then you need to stop sleeping with him all together, a real relationship is love respect etc. if you broke
up for what ever reason then, you need to stop all the
nonsesens and move on. other wise you will be the one that
get hurt. trust me when he get tired of of this he will move on
as fast as he can.
2007-10-03 17:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body is worth more than that, don't just give it away...quit having sex with him you are giving him the cow with out buying the milk !!! That is what my grandma use to say anyway wait until you finds someone that truely loves you and you will see that sex with turn into lovemaking and you will really enjoy it....
2007-10-03 18:05:52 · answer #11 · answered by jakhiamylove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋