ladies gentlemen!! how do you make your long term relationship last???

Question

I'd LOVE some nice tips and what works for you.

Answer 1

Talk on the phone.
Chat over the computer.
Mostly keep contact.
And always show your love <3 (presents, letters, show that you care and would do anything to keep the relationship)
Good luck! :)

Answer 2

Gwnyth communication is what has keep my relationship alive. Good old fashiioned open minde and mature talking with each other about everything and anything. Sure there are times when something might be said that the other might not want to hear. But realizing that it was said because that is how one of us saw something helps to bring things back down to earth and we can then try and accomodate the others feelings. There are many things in addition like having a good sense of humour, being each others best friends and trusting each other with everything. Hope some of these tips were helpful and that you have a long and happy relationship also.

Answer 3

Well only my personal view: its hard but but smooth as the years go by, wife and I first we stayed the same personally as when we met, kidding, loving and trusting. sure there are times when arguments occur, but we never screamed at each other, never belittled each other. rumors of either were settled openly in a casual way, and after many a year, we now rather tell the person not to tell us anything except if they knew first hand. to this day we do things on the spur of the moment, which makes both our days happier. So be honest and stick to it, talk out problems, no shouting, or physical, and a decision does not have to be made right away, pending situation, yes, other times no. Treat each other with respect, always, and always, give that good night kiss saying I love you before retiring. It worked for us, OOPS we do not drink, that is a big part of many relationships and PS. we will be married 45 years this month, and yes live together, lol she not live in australia and me here. Good luck

Answer 4

Listening to your partner is huge. We laugh a lot....even when things are bad...money,kids, etc. We always make it a point to find the humor in the situation. After 16 years, he is still my best friend and we tell each other everything. We also have a lot of respect for each other. Even if I leave the house to run to the store, I always leave a note and he does the same. We try to be thoughtful of the other......little things like bringing him a cup of coffee when he is out in the shop or he runs me a bath if I've had a long day.....things to most people would be inconsequential, but mean alot to us. And the most important thing, is we NEVER criticize the other in public..... not talking to friends family,ever, If we have something to say it is always privately.

Answer 5

Well I am on marraige #2, I can say is find someone that completes you. you will know when that happens. I have been with my current wife for nearly 8 years and have had only one minor arguement and to this day neither one remembers what it was about.

as far as tips I really don't know what I can offer. If you have doubts about the relationship or does your partner, then it might not be what you need or want.

I got lucky most of what I like she likes. I have no complaints.

Answer 6

Keep an open mind, always be willing to consider the fact that you may be wrong. If we get into a heated conversation, one of us always walks away for about 10-30 minutes, then comes back and we talk like adults again. Say "I love you" at least daily. Never withhold love to "teach him something" it only teaches rejection by you. Try and find time to "date" now and then. Surprise him with notes in his lunchbox now and then (or a cell phone call just to say "I love you.") Remember that BOTH the male and female need their own space, whether it be to shop, hunt, her to go out with the girls, him to watch the game with the guys, whatever. Give them their space. On the other side of that--if you are the one getting the space--call him/her and let him/her know, hey, I'm leaving to come home now, I should be home in about 15 min. (or whatever), just as a courtesy, so if not, they can come looking for you, for your safety. And lastly (my grandma's wedding advice to me 24 years ago) Never go to bed angry at each other--one of you might not wake up the next morning, and the other would regret going to bed angry.

Answer 7

Don't be clingy, don't ask a lot of questions of where they have been, give foot/back massages, and be supportive and never jealous, also never let little things bother you; such as squeezing toothpaste from the middle, not making beds, and leaving dishes in the sink.

Answer 8

hey there..yeah so I've been wit my bf for 2 years and what I find that works is to try new things. Do something that they would least expect. Also don't be afraid to just let go and do something childish.Just have fun. Be creative. try iceskating or you could make something home made and give it to them to show you love. Cook together that is always fun.

Answer 9

Trust honesty romance
being in a restaurant and making them feel like they are the most wonderful, beautiful captivating other half to you
yummy yummy

Answer 10

Don't let things get too routine and don't forget to go out on dates once in awhile(sounds kind of silly, but after awhile, you get so comfortable just spending time together). Two things that I would say are important for me.