Family & Relationships - 13 September 2007

My brother's girlfriend is completely obnoxious! When she comes over she always makes fun of him in front of the family, like she thinks it's cool or something. She isn't very attractive and when they go swimming I want to throw up a little in my mouth. They are always fighting over something petty and what-not. She will throw a fit and leave, but the next day it's like nothing ever happened!

I don't think they are right for each other. But my brother won't hear it. What should I do about her?

2007-09-13 05:42:19 · 52 answers · asked by tricy 1 in Singles & Dating

so i will be 6 months prego when we get married on teh beach in december... i ha ve been looking at dresses and i found one i like but i dont know when to get it or anything like that... this is all new to me and im getting a bit stressed cuz im working on teh babys room and planning a wedding my family for the most part wont be at because they all live in chicago and im in florida... any suggestions?

2007-09-13 05:41:39 · 15 answers · asked by trackstud610 2 in Weddings

I have never got it.
I have never cheated on anyone because if I have that proves I cant love them so I wouldnt be with them. but thats just me

2007-09-13 05:40:47 · 29 answers · asked by April 3 in Singles & Dating

the movie had a black guy in it. she hasnt stopped talking abut how huge his **** was and she said she loved watching it. i am average size and to see how excited she was worries me. should i be worried.

2007-09-13 05:37:07 · 29 answers · asked by Jon M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in June 2008. My fiance has five kids (4,6,9,11) and I have two (2 months and 20 months) and I have a 13 (almost 14) year old niece living with me and am fighting for custody of my 3 year old niece. and when we get married my 2 month old will 11 months and my fiance said he wants to atleast have one child with me. I think it's a great idea because we both have great jobs and my job is a job at home so I won't have to worry about matiernaty leave, BUT my soon-to-be-mother-in-law is being a real big pain saying "Oh so you want to live in a house with 9 kids and still expect to live a normal life?" I'm 28 my fiance is 29 1/2, how do we get her to shut up about nagging us about wanting another kid. We are very wealthy and we don't need her smart comments.

2007-09-13 05:32:12 · 20 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Weddings

Two separate instances:

1) One of the secretaries at my office is about to get fired. I can tell the boss doesn't like her, and I saw an ad he posted on craigslist for her position. I am not friends with this girl, but we are friendly, we're acquaintances. Can I tell her?

2) I met a girl at a wedding, we became friendly (again not friends, just acquaintances). We've chatted occasionally since. At the wedding, I overheard her boyfriend talk about how he's cheating on her. They've been together 2 years, she thinks he's a god. Can I tell her?

Advice ASAP!! I really WANT to tell, but that's just b/c I'm nosy. What I need to know is SHOULD I tell?

2007-09-13 05:31:01 · 21 answers · asked by Karen H 3 in Friends

2007-09-13 05:29:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i lent US$350 my BF when we were nice, and 1 mth later he dumped me. returned US$100 already,and promised the rest in 3 months. in the 3rd month, not cleared he paid all, he borrowed again, US$ 70, and now, 6 months later, there is US$ 80 which I dont intend to ask back from him anymore, we lost contact,and now, he return TEXTING me, asking for help to borrow US$ 500, because he has involved in drugs for 2 months.. and he has realized his mistake for 2 weeks never use it anymore.
1.or should I tell his mother about him,
2.or should I just walk out of his life do not care at all about him?
I dont think we can be a couple again, but I do care about him.
(PS : he has been saying rude words to me during the time after we broke up, he didnt appreciate me caring about him, he even told me about his new crush which i think it was very improper to talk about new GF to your ex GF)
some one told me "If you still care about him then tell his mom" but I am worried that he'll b angry to me

2007-09-13 05:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 05:24:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I myself have made this mistake before, more then once. With guys whom I met, we went out for a few times, it was great and we had a good time. I thought there could be something to develop between us. After a few times, I spent a lot of time at his place, and all we did was stay there and you know the rest. I feel once you start doing that, he will get the signal that he has the upper hand. It's fun, and exciting but the price you pay is disappointment, pain, and the fact that he has put you on his 'casual' shelf... the next thing you know is there is no relationship anymore, he will not take the initiative to want to please you emotionally/mentally, he does not cherish you, he denies what you want in a relationship, basically he just doesn't give a S*** about you & YOU LOSE ALL YOUR BARGANING POWER. So my question is, why do some women end up happliy married to the guys they do this with & others get hurt. I know women who are married to a man they slept with on the first date

2007-09-13 05:23:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

gets raunchy as well, dont want an affair but nights are lonely and really fancy some erotic e mailing with ladies, have tried some sites that ask you to register free then want some cash to carry on, i just want some free sites that are genuine, any ideas

2007-09-13 05:20:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still love her and the prettynice daughther she gives me, but I can't really forget what she did.

2007-09-13 05:17:45 · 11 answers · asked by valoowa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been noticing a pattern of behavior in this woman I have been dating for a few weeks now.

Whenever we see each other at work she will sometimes say hello to me. Other times she won't even acknowledge that I am standing right there or holding the door open for her. She rarely, if at all, starts a conversation with me. I usually have to be the one who starts it. Then there are times that she chooses to barely acknowledge my input on conversations.

But whenever we go out she will talk to me and start the conversations.

It almost seems like at times she is interested in me, then at other times she doesn't seem to care too much. We don't have a really serious relationship going but we are definitely dating.

Is this a game that she is playing that many women play or no? Or am I just thinking about it too much?

DISCLAIMER:Nothing I have said applies to every woman in the world. So don't get all pissy and defensive. If you do, don't bother answering.

2007-09-13 05:09:24 · 21 answers · asked by Cameron 3 in Singles & Dating

What bad could from from it? The purity of our marriage has already been destroyed. And it would make me feel a lot better. In fact I don't even want to have an affair. I want to pay the skankiest ho I can find, and then come home and have sex with my wife without washing up.

If you tell me it's wrong, will the rage, jealousy, and pain ever go away on it's own?

2007-09-13 05:08:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are the essential places that need to know? how soon after the wedding? thanks!

2007-09-13 05:06:45 · 11 answers · asked by cowwhiskers 2 in Weddings

i've got a crush on a new student in my school. He's absolutely my type! My friends often see him stares at me all th time. But, 2 weeks later i heard he just had relationship with ma fella's sister.

So many situations that force us to meet each other.
For exmple, we both had to sing a song for school's party, so we were having so many days of practising our song.

When the party was about to started, i changed my clothes and i wore a pretty gown that was obviously not my style.
Then he called my name outloud (which he was so faraway from me) and he said i was amazing.

After our show, i already prepared an sms to him. i said:

'Hey, uno what, i hate that i love you.'

He didnt reply.
He replied it on the next day.

He said:

"...And i hate the fact that i can do nothing bout it. I'm sorry.."

What did he mean? does he have a crush on me??

Well, once he talked to me, he said he didnt like his new girl, cos she's so ****** childish.

2007-09-13 05:06:07 · 8 answers · asked by TaraAulia 1 in Singles & Dating

Who do you trust...The accusser or your husband? This is something that supposedly happened before we were married. Either way this can't be ignored.

2007-09-13 05:06:06 · 27 answers · asked by deme081475 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend invited my sister and I to go to the beach with them. I want to be really excited... but I feel bad my parents don't get to go. We havn't gone on vacation for so long! I never go anywhere and I get really creeped out when I have to leave home. I'm around my parents 24/7 because I'm homeschooled and everything. They keep saying "Go and have the time of your life!" But I'm sad to leave them at home and mom says she 'won't' be okay when I'm gone because there won't be any kids around. I asked them if they really wanted me to go and they said yes. But I still feel really bad that they never get to do anything and sissy and I get to go have fun when mom and dad are stuck at home. I want to go, but I feel guilty leaving them home! They always tell me I'll have so much fun that I'll forget about them... but that'd be way too hard to do. What do you guys think?

2007-09-13 05:04:19 · 5 answers · asked by T.J. H 2 in Family

We are forever hearing about Male-Female violence,how come so little is said about Female-Male violence.I have a co-worker who's wife beats the crap out of him.

2007-09-13 05:03:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have friends that perform oral solely because their guy likes it, some who don't like it at all and refuse to do it, and some who enjoy performing it. There aren't more of one preference than another so this is why I ask...

Which one do you fall under?

2007-09-13 05:02:50 · 15 answers · asked by sexynsmartxoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

my son went from dvd covers to now bringing in movies i know he is growing up but what do i do i am a single parent with other kids. i try not to blow up but man who wants to face the fact that their child is about to be sexually active. he is a 3.5 gpa child.but man i dont want anything to distract him from his education HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-09-13 04:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by champ 2 in Family

My wife is a fairly attractive woman - she's 22. I'm 23. We have 2 boys, 5 yrs & 20 months. We are going out to this club this weekend for her bday & she is excited and all. The thing is, she wants to wear provocative clothing, such as she has this dress that ties at her neck and shows all her back. I think it's inappropriate as most guys would drool over her & plus I think she should respect me and not look like an easy tag. If she were to wear something more conservative, I wouldn't have a problem. But I think she thirsts for the attention & I don't like it. I did let her wear something similiar like this awhile back - I had a problem with it but I didn't tell her anything, as I didn't want to seem over protective.

Do you think I have a right to have some limits with my wife or am I over analyzing this?

2007-09-13 04:58:43 · 39 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Please answer this question as honestly as you can....no jokes or sarcasms please. Why do some men resort to physically abusing women and/or others? Were you abused as a child? Did you have a mother that did not love or nurture you enough? Did your father abuse your mohter? I'm just trying to understand. By the way, I was once in a very abusive relationship for almost 5 years where my mate absued me and blamed me all the time for his abuse. There was always as an excuse as to why he abused me. He wouldn't leave me alone after I left him. I've been out of that relationship for over a year now. I'm more cautious now when it comes to a relationship with a man. I know the signs of a batterer. Thank you for answering honestly.

2007-09-13 04:58:22 · 20 answers · asked by thebestofthedoors 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So the place we have will provide centerpieces, I still want to name the tables different places we have been and put pictures there of us at that place like Maine. Should I laminate and just set them on the table, like a postcard, should I frame them. or just display them somehow?

2007-09-13 04:57:54 · 7 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

My bridemaid wants to invite me to invite her best friend. I know her but am not close with her. Do you think this is rude. I did meet my bridemaid through her but see has only meet my fiance once and told my bridemaid she hated him soo??

2007-09-13 04:56:22 · 25 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

My now ex girlfriend stopped talking to me and asked me to give her her space about 3 weeks ago. I love her very much and don't want things to end, but she just thinks we're going in to different directions with our lives. We had a vacation scheduled to Myrtle Beach next week. Of course I'm not going now, but her and her 3 year old daughter are still going. I wasn't respectful at first of giving her her space because I wanted to talk things out. She baiscally told me to back off again and give her her space. I have now. And it's been a week since I've had any contact with her. However, she is leaving for a week on Saturday, and I just want to send her an email to wish her and her daughter a safe and fun trip. It sounds kinda silly, but should I do this?

2007-09-13 04:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by Roland of Gilead 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently a friend of mine dumped a man, who she had known for 6 weeks, really liked UNTIL the first time they had sex, he suddenly howled like a dog!

She thought there was something wrong and jumped off, only to realise he actually made that noice because he came, she was shocked and practically dumped him the next day!

I actually found this halirious but any of my previous lovers just quietly grunted or gave a little moan, we have never heard of a howler before, have u?

2007-09-13 04:55:50 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 04:55:26 · 2 answers · asked by worried 1 in Friends

my m8 has told me she lied to her bf bout having a misscarriage, she said it just came out to his sister when she was saying his other sister is pregnant,
my friends wants to start trying for a baby next yr but her bf 4yrs younger than her (19) said he doesn't want them for bout 5 yrs,
she has just lost her grandad and its his funeral 2moro. i'm unsure what to tell her
she is on about packing her things and leaving him going back home cause she thinks he would never forgive her
she thinks she should just give up
any suggestions?

2007-09-13 04:54:37 · 1 answers · asked by destiny 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that a lot of guys from the US seek mail order brides from places like Russia and various parts of Asia. More often than not, these women are just looking for a ticket to the US. Are some of these guys so delusional that they actually think that these women are marrying them, because they LOVE them?

2007-09-13 04:53:06 · 7 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Singles & Dating