i lent US$350 my BF when we were nice, and 1 mth later he dumped me. returned US$100 already,and promised the rest in 3 months. in the 3rd month, not cleared he paid all, he borrowed again, US$ 70, and now, 6 months later, there is US$ 80 which I dont intend to ask back from him anymore, we lost contact,and now, he return TEXTING me, asking for help to borrow US$ 500, because he has involved in drugs for 2 months.. and he has realized his mistake for 2 weeks never use it anymore.
1.or should I tell his mother about him,
2.or should I just walk out of his life do not care at all about him?
I dont think we can be a couple again, but I do care about him.
(PS : he has been saying rude words to me during the time after we broke up, he didnt appreciate me caring about him, he even told me about his new crush which i think it was very improper to talk about new GF to your ex GF)
some one told me "If you still care about him then tell his mom" but I am worried that he'll b angry to me
2007-09-13 05:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not expecting my US$80 back from him, I am only still doubtful about his destroying himself. I am sure I don't want to lend him this time. I have told him I don't have money. I am only hoping his mother would help him if she knew. And I really don't understand myself why I should waste my time & my brain for him. Definitely I am not expecting we are becoming a couple again
2007-09-13 06:00:18 · update #1
STOP TALKING TO HIM! HE IS A LOSER, yes you can still care about him but when a person does drugs the only thing they are gonna care about is the drug, they will manipulate other people , use them, even steal and lie. is that worth all your heart aches . NO... just let him be , consider the money gone.. pray that he gets help. I bet his mother already knows, if he sees her or talks to her, bring it up to her and just be nice about it, you could though start a bigger problem. best of luck to you
2007-09-13 05:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and done that!! Borrowing money to supply my habit. If he is anything like me, it's not just you he's borrowing money from. Also it's not just you he owes money too! I'd lie and cheat to who ever would let me. No one can help us until we're ready to help ourselves. After borrowing,lying and cheating....what comes next...stealing!! Drug addiction is a mean animal. Today I pray for every addict that has been where I have. I will also pray that your not in that mix. God Bless
2007-09-13 12:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont tell his mom cuz its there buisness instead plzzz dont help him cuz wen he gets the money again he is gonna do the same thing again tell him u moved on and u aint helping him no more I know it hurts but think bout it if u give him money again maybe he gonna do the same thing again and its not easy to get rid of drugs that easily. Gud luck hun
2007-09-13 12:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by someone special u can love 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
STOP giving him money! You are just a bank to him! STOP all contact with him! Move on!
2007-09-13 12:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP giving him money! he is just going to go out and buy drugs with it anyway. do yourself a favor and remove yourself from the situation entirely!
2007-09-13 12:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could tell her but don't expect anything to come from that,forget him.if you want your money take him to court.but STOP giving him money.by giving him money you were maybe buying his drugs.why would you continue giving him money??he really played you and you fell for it.sorry,truth hurts.
2007-09-13 12:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by susan e 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run do not walk away
2007-09-13 12:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by cannot_remember_chit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop loaning him money!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-13 12:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋