the movie had a black guy in it. she hasnt stopped talking abut how huge his **** was and she said she loved watching it. i am average size and to see how excited she was worries me. should i be worried.
2007-09-13 05:37:07 · 29 answers · asked by Jon M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
uhhh...even white guys in porn have big ones.
She's stupid to keep talking about it. And it's kind of insensitive. I'm sure she wouldn't like if you were talking about the girls in it...
2007-09-13 05:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by jezyka 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like an insensitive female dog!! Next time rent movies from the "big boob" genre, or Hustler's "Barely Legal" series, then ask if she would like to hear her husband rave about the huge knockers or young fit girls he was just amazed by. Judging by her use of the word "love" to describe how she felt she is being pretty cruel and has no regard for your feelings. I bet this isn't the first time she has humiliated you (this one was just a low blow, so to speak) and it won't be the last. If she's that overwhelmed by the size do keep an eye on her. Start thinking about how long you want to stay with a person who could be so callous. And yes all guys in porn have pretty big ding-a-lings, porn is a perpetuation of stereotypes - sex starved blondes, well hung black guys, etc.
Don't listen to Lady Arianna. You go sticking a tree trunk into a woman who is developing a size fetish and that genie will never be put back in the bottle, brother!
2007-09-13 06:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by planetdkw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - you need to be discussing this with your wife. If the two of you are comfortable enough to watch porn together, you should be comfortable enough to discuss what you've watched.
Secondly - women and men seem to get excited over the bodies they see in the porn movies. Extra large and super sized isn't just for fast food anymore, apparently. I'm sure you got excited watching those women, their bodies and what they could do with them.
Now - once you've discussed this issue with your wife, remember there are ways to live out fantasies without involving other people. Visit an adult store, or shop online, and browse the adult toy section. There are many products that are created based on a porn actor's body. Maybe you could get one for "special occasion" usage to let her "see how it feels". Make sure you are secure enough in your relationship that you won't feel like she's going to enjoy the toy more than you.
Many couples have a wonderful relationship and love the occasional use of toys just to add a little spice in the bedroom.
Best Wishes.
2007-09-13 06:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, no worries. Think of it this way, you as a male might be flabbergasted by a female on a porn with huge breasts. That doesn't mean you want to go swimming in a pool of breasts it just means that you were flabbergasted! Same thing with your wife, it was probably the biggest she had seen.
Now if you want to expand on that excitement, take her to an adult store and have her pick a toy that she thinks is about the same size and use it on her. Fun to be had by all!
2007-09-13 05:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing you want to tell her was that not all black guys are hung like that. All of the stereotypes are out there so I won't get into that, but I have been with a couple of girls who have been with black guys. One of them had been with numerous black guys. They vary in size just like us. Some are big and some are small. One thing I think a lot of women are intrigued by is the "forbidden fruit" stigma in that a lot of society still thinks that the races shouldn't mix and that makes them at least want to try it. I also think the contrast of skin color during sex is another thing that turns them on. Should you be worried? I don't know. It all depends on how far you guys want to take it.
2007-09-13 05:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not be worried.
Unless she gets a taste of that huge wanger, then it is good bye Mr. Chips.
I don't think him being a Black guy had or has anything to do with it. I think it was the size of it that freaked her out. I have seen some mega sized one eyed snakes on craigslist, and they are always looking for love. But they can't find any....too much starch!!
Peace
2007-09-13 05:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by MissUnderstood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she keeps talking about it. My hubby is avg. size and he worries that I want/need something bigger, so I am sensitive to his worries and don't talk about size, but the truth is that to me, size DOES NOT MATTER, and no matter how many times I tell him this, he still worries, and this drives me nuts!
Your wife is probably just shocked, not wishing she had it for her....I think by now you'd know for real if she was lacking in your sex life, don't you? Besides, if she is sweet, loving, and committed to you, the two of you can come up with ways for her to experience that by using toys etc....
BE CONFIDENT!!!!!
2007-09-13 05:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless she acts on this infatuation. I think movies have more well endowed men in them that you find in the general population. There are sex toys and the 2 of you could use them to fulfill her fantasies. She just may have been impressed. I've seen some rather huge penises in videos and they are impressive.
2007-09-13 07:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' worry about it, I am the same way.
It's the same way when a guy sees big boobs and gets excited but their wife/girlfriend are average.
It has nothing to do with you.
2007-09-13 05:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the mentioning of the size isnt the issue, because it can be just shocking and doesnt have to be in a good way. but that she loved it is another thing. that would have me kinda worried.
2007-09-13 05:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should worry. Now she'll wonder about every black man she sees. The thought of it will drive her crazy until she starts raping random black men on the street. Please protect us from your wife. (Don't protect us if she's good looking). Oh and definitely protect those of us who don't meet the stereotype. We want to keep that one going a bit longer.
2007-09-13 08:28:37 · answer #11 · answered by Blade_III 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋