should my m8 come clean?

Question

my m8 has told me she lied to her bf bout having a misscarriage, she said it just came out to his sister when she was saying his other sister is pregnant,
my friends wants to start trying for a baby next yr but her bf 4yrs younger than her (19) said he doesn't want them for bout 5 yrs,
she has just lost her grandad and its his funeral 2moro. i'm unsure what to tell her
she is on about packing her things and leaving him going back home cause she thinks he would never forgive her
she thinks she should just give up
any suggestions?

thanks for your answer but her bf is 19 and she is 23

Answer 1

15 year old boyfriend? She is 19..... something isn't right here, so YES tell her to go. Problem there is that her being with a 15 year old shows something amist with this friend of yours. Its one thing for a guy to do it, (*insecurites*) cough.... but for a lady to be that insecure? Somethings going on here, then for her to want to have a kid with him? Of course he said 5 years his balls dropped less then 2 years ago and this lady wants to make him a dad? Yea this isn't good..... very askewed perceptions on what makes a good dad, and sorry to say this what makes a good mother, because a mother wouldn't pick a kid to be a dad..... so I'd advise you to talk some sense into her before she goes off think love is all she needs in a relationship, forsakening all the much more deeper, more important aspects of it like, compassion, which she isn't showing for this 15 year old kid.....