I have never got it.
I have never cheated on anyone because if I have that proves I cant love them so I wouldnt be with them. but thats just me
2007-09-13 05:40:47 · 29 answers · asked by April 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is awesome. Sometimes you are caught in the moment, sometimes you just want some physical pleasure. It doesn't even have anything to do with emotions or you might be pissed with your significant other.
I've never actually cheated but I've come so close it took like me punching me in the balls to not. It seemed pretty stupid not to, because if she isn't going to get hurt since there's no way of finding out. But still I don't have a lot of values-- honesty is all I got. So if I say I'm not going to cheat I won't. I can definately understand people that do.
2007-09-13 05:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rockstar Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a common feeling to want something you can't have. Women chase guys that don't show interest and men do the same thing. Once they catch the guy they move on to the next one. Guys do the same thing.
When guys are dating a girl they are more confident so other girls become more attracted to him which makes him question if he made the right decision.
This only explains part of the problem though.
The real question is does the person really love the other person. I think if he/she loved them, they wouldn't do anything to hurt them.
What I don't understand is the whole dishonesty about it. If you fall out of love or you have feelings for someone else, talk to the person you are with and see if there is a way to work it out or discuss ending the relationship before you go out and start hurting people.
2007-09-13 12:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes this is answered very simply and sometimes it isn't. One very common but very good rule to go by is that actions speak. Never listen to what people say... watch what they do. A person's actions speak volumes and cheating on someone is not a loving act -- unless of course they don't love you. I don't think most people really even know what love is. Remember: cheating hurts others and is not a loving act. More than likely, if someone cheats on you then they do not love you. Move on.
2007-09-13 12:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with xxsummerxx232. The people who do cheat are selfish and are only thinking of themselves at the time. If your not happy in a relationship then break up with that person, it's much easier than cheating and going through all of that for what? a one night stand?
2007-09-13 12:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. I hate when people say ''I love you'' but then they can cheat on you. The thing is i love my fiance with all my heart and could never do anything to hurt him. Especially not for a few seconds of fun with some other guy and for what? to ruin years of a relationship?
People who do cheat are selfish and there is no way that they could be inlove with that person if they can cheat on them.
2007-09-13 12:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although cheating hurts people, that is not to say the guilty person is a bad person. Even the revered Oskar Schindler would sleep with anyone except Mrs Schindler, and he wasn't all bad was he?
It just means that person has given in to human weakness and may indeed genuinely love the partner he has hurt. Some people are capable of forgiving and putting it behind them. Some are not.
2007-09-13 12:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Phil McCracken 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you. I am a lesbian and I have a beautiful, charming wife. I would never cheat on her, nor have I ever cheated on a lover. I am not wired that way because I deeply respect the meaning of commitment and intmacy. My wife is the same way and we've been together over 3 years. I would never stay with someone who cheated on me because that violates the trust in the relationship. If you want to see someone else, then break up and go get it.
2007-09-13 12:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have never cheated on my wife of 21 years and I never will. Twice in my married life I have had women tell me they were interested and wanted to know if I'd like to sleep with them. I think of my wife and know that I could never betray her by cheating no matter how tempting it may be because I love my wife and our marriage too much to jeopardize anything.
2007-09-13 12:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will get a million of answer
but none that can justified the action behind them
there is always a choice
there is a right way and wrong way
if your not happy why choose to find someone to understand when you really want the one your with to understand how you feel or why your not happy and if they are not will to fix it or just not good at fixing it then just let go and move on.
2007-09-13 12:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by 10tolife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never cheated. Got cheated on though, so quite cynical about any future relationship.
2007-09-13 12:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by First Ascent 4 Thistle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋