My now ex girlfriend stopped talking to me and asked me to give her her space about 3 weeks ago. I love her very much and don't want things to end, but she just thinks we're going in to different directions with our lives. We had a vacation scheduled to Myrtle Beach next week. Of course I'm not going now, but her and her 3 year old daughter are still going. I wasn't respectful at first of giving her her space because I wanted to talk things out. She baiscally told me to back off again and give her her space. I have now. And it's been a week since I've had any contact with her. However, she is leaving for a week on Saturday, and I just want to send her an email to wish her and her daughter a safe and fun trip. It sounds kinda silly, but should I do this?
2007-09-13 04:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by Roland of Gilead 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope you shouldn't...I am sure you heard "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it will always be yours. If it doesn't come back, it was never yours to begin with"...I think that definitely applies here (that that your -ex is your property but hopefully you get my meaning)...I know this is painful for you...but you have to let her be the one to contact you first...good luck
2007-09-13 05:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically you sound like a stalker. Dont contact her. It would be best to just back off until she comes back to you, if she does. No just drop it ok. You said that you had a hard time giving her space and you are now doing the same thing
2007-09-13 05:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, don't do it! Why do you insist on being clingy? She asked loud and clear for you to leave her alone for now. Why not honor her request? No matter what her reasons are, she's asking you to leave her alone. If you don't - this makes you a stalker. Why would you go down this road? If you have even an ounce of self-respect and respect for her - stop pestering her. By insisting on contacting her against her wishes, you will only make things worse.
2007-09-13 05:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. You need to give her at least a few weeks or a month. It sounds like she wants a break and to think about things. Maybe you should be doing that too. Get out and enjoy yourself, go hang out with friends or go do something fun. Don't dwell on what is going on as it's not fair to you.
2007-09-13 05:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by yomama23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. She asked for space. Give it to her.
2007-09-13 04:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO! when a woman says give her space....then give her space. Move on dude, she's over it.
2007-09-13 05:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid you are going to have to let her go and hope she comes back to you. If not, you need to move on too.
2007-09-13 05:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not do anything.
Even tho you do care, she has tried to make something very clear to you, so pretend that you understand, and stay away.
2007-09-13 05:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by Rev. Deb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋