Family & Relationships - 13 September 2007

i have a friend that want's to have sex , but she is only 13 and has a 16 year old lezbian friend/lover...she isnt sure what she sould do...she is truly sure she loves them, and they love her very muh ; the girl's lover does bad drug's , but she love's her anyway , and her lover is really trying to stop for my friend, what sould she do. any advice? :D

2007-09-13 02:54:05 · 17 answers · asked by jesssica m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Let me explain,we own a couple of rental properties out in Baltimore,we live in DC.And I feel secure in our relationship,well I did until I saw a picture of the realator from Long & Foster that we deal with telling him on a e mail that she wants to tear him apart everytime she sees him!When I asked him about it he said it's just conversation baby.He said I'll never do nothing with her and you know that.What do you think about this?

2007-09-13 02:54:03 · 41 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is 8 and wants her room decorated in playboy,NOT because she is a sex fanatic but cause she loves bunnies for god sake.People need to get a life not everyone looks upon it as porn.Some kids just like the design.

2007-09-13 02:53:47 · 43 answers · asked by LYN W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-13 02:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-13 02:51:52 · 4 answers · asked by Australia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to tell a great friend of mine that I am starting to have different feelings for him. He’s been a friend for almost five years. We always talk at least once or twice a day and go out for dinner and/or drinks on the weekends. We spent the whole summer (weekends) on his boat which is pretty nice and very special because we have alone time with one another. He is very good to me and very respectful of my feelings which I really admire. Our relationship is such that we talk about each others likes/dislikes, personal and professional careers and at time the kind of relationships we look for.

He is much more outgoing and often tries to attract and/or see if he could connect with a girl that he admires from afar. He is sometimes successful that he would date the girl(s) a few times and have fun being around them. I catch myself feeling jealous or put out when I hear things like that or can’t figure out that it may seem obvious that I am attracted to him. I must admit our relationship is like buddies/pals where we talk about almost anything, no holds bar in the kinds of subject matters that we talk about.

We are both in our late 30's to early 40's so we are not young but obviously still have the same concerns that it may change the dynamics of our relationship if he does not feel the same way. I need advice as to how to either approach the subject or if I should just wait it out to see if it unfolds on it's own?

2007-09-13 02:50:17 · 10 answers · asked by LES 2 in Singles & Dating

I on this website to find sugar daddies how can I sweet talk em to buying me things and giving me money

2007-09-13 02:50:04 · 3 answers · asked by diamondsgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 years old having issues with my father. I dated a man for 10 months and broke up with him in May because he hit me. He had full custody of his 4 year old son. My father and stepmother got to know this child in the last three months that we dated. After we broke up, my father came to me asking what I thought about him continuing to see the child. I told him that it didn't make sense. However, my father disregarded my feelings and continued to see him. Now, 4 months later, this is tearing my family apart. My brother doesn't approve, either. My father knows that we do not approve but takes it to extremes (will not even call us when he has this child). In the past month this has become every day. This child is mean just like his father and continuously disrespects everyone. I currently have a new boyfriend who my father won't even try with. This child has a grandmother to provide care. Now I hear my father is going to try and get custody because my ex is in jail! what to do?

2007-09-13 02:44:42 · 1 answers · asked by AimeeH 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 25 years old having issues with my father. I dated a man for 10 months and broke up with him in May because he hit me. He had full custody of his 4 year old son. My father and stepmother got to know this child in the last three months that we dated. After we broke up, my father came to me asking what I thought about him continuing to see the child. I told him that it didn't make sense. However, my father disregarded my feelings and continued to see him. Now, 4 months later, this is tearing my family apart. My brother doesn't approve, either. My father knows that we do not approve but takes it to extremes (will not even call us when he has this child). In the past month this has become every day. This child is mean just like his father and continuously disrespects everyone. I currently have a new boyfriend who my father won't even try with. This child has a grandmother to provide care. Now I hear my father is going to try and get custody because my ex is in jail! what to do?

2007-09-13 02:42:21 · 6 answers · asked by AimeeH 1 in Family

2007-09-13 02:38:13 · 43 answers · asked by flowersinthewind 5 in Family

Theres the obvious... not to be blunt but some blokes do cheat, but i'm looking at other things...

2007-09-13 02:36:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i put that so ig your a chritian thing up because some christian think that its ok to drink, smoke, and have sex but i have been a christian for a long time and i wante dto see what people's answers would be but i know that you cant do any of that stuff ok i am a christian and proud of it anyone else out there that is and is under the age of 18????

2007-09-13 02:32:51 · 5 answers · asked by thenatigirl2009 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been going out with this girl on 3 dates so far and we went to kind of expensive restaurants (average $120/meal for the tow of us). I have asked her out all 3 times and I have paid for all meals and at no time did she offer to pay. At some point I asked her why she going out with me and her reply was that she wants to get to know me because she thinks that I'm a great person. My concern is that she might just come out because of the free dinners and that is a problem. I mean if she would only offer to pay that would be nice - I would probably pay for her anyway.
So how should I subtly ask her to @ least offer to pay or how can I tell if she's dating me just to get free dinners?

2007-09-13 02:31:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say you are seeing someone who refuses to say you are bf/gf and only introduces you and refers to you as a friend. You see her maybe once, twice a week. If you meet someone else, do you have an obligation to tell that other person? If so, how do you "break up" with someone you're not really dating?

2007-09-13 02:24:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 02:23:10 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been deployed to Afghanistan for the past few months and my girlfriend put an ad in the paper seeking a roomate. One has followed through, but he happens to be a guy her age. Should I be worried?

2007-09-13 02:15:27 · 15 answers · asked by tfitm 1 in Singles & Dating

They say most married couples fight about money, kids and sex. So, here is some advice. Be sure you know the man you are going to marry. You need to have basically the same principles, morals, values and standards. If you don't, you will have problems. Be sure you agree about alcohol, porn, discipline of children, money and sex. These things need to be discussed. Good Luck! =) Love is a choice, and marraige vows are sacred. Take a look at the vows and discuss what they mean to you with your significant other so you know for sure that you agree and really know who you are marrying! After having 30 or so boyfriends before my husband came along, I think I should know a few things and I think I should pass that info on =)

2007-09-13 02:14:32 · 17 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Singles & Dating

what works for you?

what should i try?

things like that.

2007-09-13 02:11:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 02:09:00 · 10 answers · asked by MRZ.THiiCKY_THiiCK08 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i know i am definatly not ready for marriage, but I hear about how upset everyone is and sad and all that when they are married. I thought marriage was supposed to be a good thing. I guess what im trying to say is can I hear from sombody who is happily married? Over the years i have seen friends/family go thru failed marriages enough that im starting to loose faith in it. Now im not saying its anyones job to renew my faith, i just want to hear from some people who are happy lol.

2007-09-13 02:06:48 · 40 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband sends me conflicting messages. On the one hand, he keep saying rude, nasty things to me. Then, he says that he likes my picture and feels that I am still the "right" person for him. He also says that I need to "fix" myself and until I do, he does not want to speak to me. I am undependable and unstable in his eyes.

My parents do not want me to go back to him. Yet, they are pushing me out of the house. My mom is moody and rude and difficult to deal with. She makes an issue about minor things.
She wants my help, but then pushes me out of her house.

Maybe the problem is me as my ex-husband says and I need to fix myself because I think that I am the "queen" of everything. I do try to help out where possible.

I am going through a lot of stress due to my daughter moving here, new job, etc.

2007-09-13 02:03:25 · 15 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

on a budget so using village hall would it seem to silly to have people eating pork baps indoors please help

2007-09-13 02:01:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I bought this expensive dress for my first cousin's wedding and a second cousin is getting married .Could I wear that same dress to my second cousin's wedding even though the second cousin was invited to the first cousin's wedding and saw me wearing that same expensive dress and about 10 people who saw me wearing that dress before are invited to the wedding?

2007-09-13 01:58:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 2 years.I love him more than anything,and he always says i'm his world,and life had never felt perfect.Then i found out he watches porn,because he needed 'more'.For starters,i'm a month off even being legal,and we had been having sex before that because i felt totally comfortable with him,but it started getting me into trouble,as i was coming home late all the time when i was with him,& i asked to stop for a couple of months.He agreed,& we meanwhile did other sexual things pretty much whenever we were together,yet he still had to resort to porn when i left,& it's because he needed more,and is so in love with me he couldnt handle me not being around!?We even fought last month because i wanted a night in with movies & cuddling because i was had the flu,yet he still wanted it,& then felt selfish.I now feel i cant even be intimate with him because i'm 'not enough'.Please help?

2007-09-13 01:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, I'm 17 and this girl that was 14 or 15 came over because she was locked our of her house because she left her keys in her house. I thought she was really cute, and I wanted to show off, what guy wouldn't?

So, I told her i had to work out and so i did and she watched. We went up to my room after and I started playing some music (rock). I was sitting in the desk chair (my parents weren't home) and she grabbed my arm and then sat on my lap. She began kissing me and one thing led to another, and before I know it we're in the bed naked and yea.

What do I do? She's not pregnant... but I still feel horrible?? help!

2007-09-13 01:44:25 · 36 answers · asked by guy 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me half a year ago. I am trying to move on but I don't want to. I have tried to move on but he always stopped me but now I told him I must move on but at the same time I worry to make the right decision? Should I tell him to have no contact for 6 months and then meet to see how we feel or should I break no contact for good? I am worried though that if I do that, we will never be able to be together again? I am so scared to know what is the right decision?

2007-09-13 01:43:20 · 19 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend broke up with me half a year ago. I am trying to move on but I don't want to. I have tried to move on but he always stopped me but now I told him I must move on but at the same time I worry to make the right decision? Should I tell him to have no contact for 6 months and then meet to see how we feel or should I break no contact for good? I am worried though that if I do that, we will never be able to be together again? I am so scared to know what is the right decision?

2007-09-13 01:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the point in living if no one cares whether u r dead or alive? all ur friends dump you coz u want 2 get good GCSE results i feel like there is no point in living and i may as well just drop down dead.

2007-09-13 01:41:54 · 9 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23, I'm out of a relationship that I wasn't happy in, and have taken some time to myself. I now feel like I could go out and socialise with men again, but I really don't know how to go about it? It's been so long since I've been on the dating scene, and I'm feeling a little insecure.

Does anyone have any suggestions? I'm not looking to jump into bed with anyone, but I'm sociable and would like to have some fun?

2007-09-13 01:41:14 · 3 answers · asked by Gem Gem 5 in Singles & Dating

at 29.

2007-09-13 01:37:36 · 17 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Singles & Dating