My boyfriend broke up with me half a year ago. I am trying to move on but I don't want to. I have tried to move on but he always stopped me but now I told him I must move on but at the same time I worry to make the right decision? Should I tell him to have no contact for 6 months and then meet to see how we feel or should I break no contact for good? I am worried though that if I do that, we will never be able to be together again? I am so scared to know what is the right decision?
2007-09-13 01:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You "broke up" with this guy 6 months ago - and you've been mooning about it since? Hey, wake up. It's over. Finished. Kaput.
Sounds like what's really wounded is your pride - apparently HE broke up with YOU and you're too proud to admit the loss.
Hey, it happens with everyone.
Forget him. Learn from the mistake - by looking at what caused the whole thing to go south in the first place - but move on. Don't look back
The famous French chanteuse Edith Piaf had a motto - I have no regrets. I suggest you think about that
2007-09-13 01:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you guys break up? Remind yourself of those reasons. Does this guy still want to be with you? Do you still want to be with him? If he doesn't want you then why are you still there? You need some space. Delete his number, dont see him and try and meet someone new. You know you should move on, you say that yourself. Only you can make this decision. Moving on isnt easy but it will get easier with time. Maybe in 6 months time you can be just friends but now thats the last thing you need. Talk to your friends get them to help you. Its a scary time but only you can make the decision.
Whatever you do as long as youre happy then its the right decision.
Good Luck
2007-09-13 01:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lucie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already been broke up for 6 months and he's the one that called it off. As you try to move on he stops you? He sounds like a pretty selfish guy to me.
He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anybody else to have you either. If he felt that he made a mistake in breaking up with you you'd probably be back together by now. You don't have to tell him anything more than you already have, which was that you must move on. Now...move on.
2007-09-13 03:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he break up? I think 6 months would be a fair amount of time to not communicate. If there is any real 'feeling' for each other, the wait will be worth it. You'd be doing the right thing to not communicate for awhile.
2007-09-13 05:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Oppna to tal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going with the same thing with my x gurl we still lov each other but cant let go.WE fight cos we scared thr other is with some one else but we need to move on, its the love thing it doesnt turn off when the relationship does,Its a strong feeling and Im the same as you, letting that go and moving on hard to do but some how we got to do it. Good luck gurl
2007-09-13 01:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
D right disicion u have 2 tke is forget all about him & move on wid ur life & try 2 fall in love cuz love makes u forget ur ex-boyfriend
2007-09-13 01:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by hero the free-booter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ye broke up six months ago then why are ye still in touch? I think you're better to walk away from this one hun - you'll never get over someone whilst you're kinda tied to them.
xx
2007-09-13 01:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no contact, works like a charm!!! that's the only you can really tell if it's meant to be or not..... good luck it's gonna suck, but time heals all wounds...remember that
2007-09-13 01:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump him and give me a call...
2007-09-13 01:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Will S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋