Say you are seeing someone who refuses to say you are bf/gf and only introduces you and refers to you as a friend. You see her maybe once, twice a week. If you meet someone else, do you have an obligation to tell that other person? If so, how do you "break up" with someone you're not really dating?
2007-09-13 02:24:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a courtesy to tell the person you're seeing that you're dating others as well. It is a must if you are sleeping with the person.
2007-09-13 02:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If you meet someone else do you have an obligation to tell that other person?"
No. You don't want to throw that in their face.. just play it cool until you feel you rather pursue the "other" relationship.
"If so, how do you "break up" with someone you're not really dating?"
When you know what you want, don't let over-sensitivity to feelings stop you. Just be kind, respectful and brief when breaking the news. Feelings may be hurt, but that's the real world.
After all, when it's not there, it's not there. Take care of yourself, and good luck!
2007-09-13 09:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by J*D*M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound good man..looks like the chick is just taking u places until she meeets someone else..best way is take her out,u hook up wit someone ,meet that some one at the same place n introduce the second girl as ur GF to ur first fake 'gf' !!
get it??
2007-09-13 09:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by hemisphere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they refer to you as "just a friend", yes...if anything, it'll make them clarify themselves a little better in the future or force them to grow up and realize that if they want the milk, they'd better buy the cow.
2007-09-13 09:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not obligated to each other...butyyou should bring it up casually and say something like "yeah me and _____ are going out this weekend for dinner". Then wait for a reaction. Good Luck
2007-09-13 09:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by D N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest with the other person, but sounds like you are free to date whoever you want.
2007-09-13 09:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by JB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her. "hey. so what shall I call you?" make it cheeky. "honey, etc."
or "where do you think we stand?" "do you like where we are going?" make it sound casual and cheeky
If she is enthusiastic about it, give her more time. however if she's unsure or sounds like she's using you as a vase, let her go. because you wanna find someone who is happy to be seen as an item with you.
good luck! :)
2007-09-13 09:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her an ice treatment, and go for the other girl. If it's not official you have no obligation to the other..
2007-09-13 09:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ricardo W. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes u should tell her its just certosiy and just say this isnt workin for me i wont some one who shares my values and arent embaressed to say im their Bf .... some thing along those lines
2007-09-13 09:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just 'friends' in her eyes so whats holding you back? if she gets upset, explain to her she should've shown that kind of commitment in the beginning.
2007-09-13 09:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋