My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 2 years.I love him more than anything,and he always says i'm his world,and life had never felt perfect.Then i found out he watches porn,because he needed 'more'.For starters,i'm a month off even being legal,and we had been having sex before that because i felt totally comfortable with him,but it started getting me into trouble,as i was coming home late all the time when i was with him,& i asked to stop for a couple of months.He agreed,& we meanwhile did other sexual things pretty much whenever we were together,yet he still had to resort to porn when i left,& it's because he needed more,and is so in love with me he couldnt handle me not being around!?We even fought last month because i wanted a night in with movies & cuddling because i was had the flu,yet he still wanted it,& then felt selfish.I now feel i cant even be intimate with him because i'm 'not enough'.Please help?
2007-09-13 01:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what.. i think the problem is that you are always ready to give yourself to him, whether you want to or not. if you didn't started freaking like rabbits everyday, then maybe you wouldn't be in this situation. try to have it less often, like only once a week, then after a while once every other, then once a month, and so on.
2007-09-13 02:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either ur that good in bed or hes got a fetish on having sex every minute lol. ok i mean i have a girl and i still watch porn, its waht guys do. and if a guys says he doesnt he's lying or he's gay. the whole thing needing more im not to sure where he's going with that. i def dont think u guys should have stopped there really isnt a reason, im 22 and my g/f an have been having sex since we were 15. we never thought about being too young. i think when u had the flu and he still wanted hes becoming obsessed with having sex with u. ur sick i mean what the hell he should taking care of u. u need to lay the law down with him. if he dont like it, show his butt the door
2007-09-13 09:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS ITS NORMAL FOR THEM TO WATCH PORN ITS JUST SOMETHING THAT THEY ENJOY. HOWEVER IF YOUR BOYFRIEND IS TELLING THAT HE NEEDS MORE THAN DO JUST THAT. ITS FINE IF YOU'RE GIVING EACH OTHER ORAL OR SO BUT TH ATS HALF OF WHAT HE NEEDS. IF YOU DONT GIVE HIM WHAT HE NEEDS WHEN YOUR NOT ILL THAN HE'LL END UP GETTING IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE. AND ABOUT THE PORN I SAY JUST SIT DOWN AND WATCH SOME PORN WITH HIM AND YOU JUST MIGHT LIKE IT. YOU KNOW IT CAN SPICE UP THE SEX. BUT DINT BE UPSET WITH HIM BY WATCHING PORN ITS A GUY THING MY BOYFRIEND HAS A COLLECTION OF VIDEO AND I'VE SEEN HALF AND TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU IT GOES WELL WITH THE SEX WE HAVE.. SO JUST GIVE IT A TRY... TAKE CARE
2007-09-13 12:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by NENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an addict, you gave him the one thing that kicks starts him and now he won't stop.
I must warn you to give him what he wants ...EXCEPT when you are sick...or he will get it from another girl.
If you love him, then you must try to get him help...because he needs it!
Porn is not an excuse, it is like a drug...he watches it and then uses you. Get him to a counselor, and get him to join
SAA- Sex Addicts Anonymous.
It will only get worse, and then soon he will begin to re-enact what he is watching..and it can get ugly.
2007-09-13 09:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss kitkat55, Move on sweety move on ! When a person needs outside stimulation in a love then they are not comitted to that love ! I know very well that it is not easy being alone but you deserve a truehearted guy !
2007-09-13 14:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just silly. Porn really has nothing to do with his attraction to you. Why don't you try watching it with him? You might find that you're pleasantly surprised by what you see.
2007-09-13 09:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, he sounds like a sexually controlling person... get rid of him, or tell him how it is.. " he gets it when you say its ok, and other then that he can just play with himself"... it's not because your not enough for him.. its because he is a perv.... and how old are you if he has his own place and you get in trouble by your parents??
2007-09-13 09:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋