Let me explain,we own a couple of rental properties out in Baltimore,we live in DC.And I feel secure in our relationship,well I did until I saw a picture of the realator from Long & Foster that we deal with telling him on a e mail that she wants to tear him apart everytime she sees him!When I asked him about it he said it's just conversation baby.He said I'll never do nothing with her and you know that.What do you think about this?
2007-09-13 02:54:03 · 41 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He left his e mail open that's how I was able to read it.She sent him pictures of her *** and bare breast.Now by all means I'm not crazy,just wanting to know how to go about this,I have 16yrs invested in this relationship and we working on trying to have a baby.I'm 31 and he's 38.
2007-09-13 03:03:14 · update #1
I agree with Nandina. I'd report her to the realtor company she's working for. That's blatant unprofessional behavior.
Then I'd ask hubby why he gave her his email address, why he's keeping her emails, and why he's emailing her. Then I'd demand he change it. If I found any more emails from her, I'd kick him to the curb.
2007-09-19 16:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rose E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i never heard of an emotional relationship where, in a situation like this, the women is showing off her breasts baby.
You need to wake up to the reality that your man isn't just your man anymore.
You need to deal with it !
You can't go on pretending that it isn't happening.
2007-09-19 03:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by sharky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he needs to stop this behavior RIGHT NOW. He needs to tell her to quit coming into contact with him. It is wrong for anyone in a marriage to have any kind of affair. He is being dishonest with you, telling you that it it "only conversation". Men usually do not invest time into relationships unless there is to be some sort of payoff. I don't know what made him look outside of your marriage to meet his "emotional" needs, and you will have to fix whatever that is, but his behavior needs to come to a screeching halt. Honesty obviously isn't his strongpoint, don't believe the "it's only talk" BS. Good luck.
2007-09-13 03:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the invitation is there then there could be a problem. He should love you enough to let her know that he is married and does not want that kind of Attn. The next thing you know he'll be telling you that your crazy and that you do not trust him and try and shift the focus on you but that's just my opinion.
2007-09-13 03:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by jeffminsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thought is as bad as the action. How would he like it if you sent pictures of your bare chest to your exes or another man for that matter - there's no need is there? The past should be left in the past when one moves on, no good rubbing your face in it now is there. He better buckle up.
2007-09-14 01:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not just converstion, baby. She's more than his realtor or wants to be.He should find someone else to deal with his real estate. Put your foot down. If nothing has happened yet, it's going to.
2007-09-20 14:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by justcurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it one of the real estate agents pictured here with their phone numbers?
http://www.longandfoster.com/Agent-Office-Search/Agent-Search-Results.aspx
I also think he's already doing more than just real estate! I would say assume he's doing her, and then ask, what to do given that is happening. Consider that he might be bored and want a little excitement, with no risk for your long-term relationship. Are you ready to end the relationship? What if he would admit it and explain himself? Why don't you confront the woman and ask her what's going on?
2007-09-19 14:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that isn't a normal conversation at all. is the realtor his ex? forget that. it doesn't matter. it's just wrong. she shouldn't be contacting him for anything besides buisness matters. if that was a buisness related e-mail, then she's not a pro at all and your husband needs to tell her to knock it off or you'll find another realtor.
2007-09-13 03:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional affairs are just as wrong as the physical affairs. I hate to say it but often times affairs start as emotional and before you know it they turn physical. I would make him stop what he is doing with her immediately. Then I would contact the agent and fire her. I am sure there are other real estate agents who can handle your property.
2007-09-13 03:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your man of 16yrs is having an affair be it physical or emotional. you need to consider if you want to continue this relationship with this man. he is not your husband why. you are doing too much with him not to be married. and now you are talking about having a baby but are not demanding that this man commit to you. at this point you have no commitments from him just promises. girl you need to wake up. you need some guarantees. if this man dies today or tomorrow what do you have NOTHING. but a lot of stuff in your and his name. you need to tie up all business transactions and than ask him when is the wedding date. get some insurance. proceed with caution and with your head and not your heart. GodBless
2007-09-18 00:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋