i have a friend that want's to have sex , but she is only 13 and has a 16 year old lezbian friend/lover...she isnt sure what she sould do...she is truly sure she loves them, and they love her very muh ; the girl's lover does bad drug's , but she love's her anyway , and her lover is really trying to stop for my friend, what sould she do. any advice? :D
2007-09-13 02:54:05 · 17 answers · asked by jesssica m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the 16 girl is using her. “she isn’t sure what she should do means that she shouldn’t do anything at all. Tell her not to because she will regret it when she’s older. People who do drugs can have a lot of weirder things up their sleeve. so… if she still wouldn’t listen, if you care for her well being, you really should tell her parents. Even till the point that you will lose her friendship. because, do you care about her wellbeing more or your friendship while she gets hurt?
2007-09-13 03:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very serious situation. She is too young to have sex with anyone or to really know what her sexual orientation is. Her parents shoud keep her away from the 16 year old. This person is a very bad influence just from the drugs alone.
2007-09-13 02:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a Friend as well and try and talk her out of this. I know she may not listen but at least you tried. She is way to young to know anything about love or sex... And i really feel you need to tell her parents. She may resent you for it but it may help her. Think about it, she may end up on these drugs as well, very dangerous situation if she happens to stay with this girl. And she could end up with something ajax can't wash away. She has blinders on to if she think's she may not end up with std's or anything. Doesn't matter what the sex of the partner is. Good luck to you and your friend.
2007-09-13 03:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is WOW!!! the 13 year old is way to young to have sex my lord! and for the girlfriend doing drugs she needs to get clean before she can have any realtionship i think does this 13 year olds parents know about her liking girls?? tel her to stay away from the girl let her friend clean up her act and wait to have sex with anyone for a while. shes to young.
2007-09-13 02:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by sue s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is 13.. too young to have a sexual relationship.
She needs to do other things --
there is a world of difference between a 16 year old and a 13 year old, as well. and why would your friend want to become involved with someone who does drugs?
maybe her parents need to know about it.... your friend isn't thinking clearly
2007-09-13 02:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 12:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dudes nowadays is getting more and more ridiculous. 13 year old wanna have sex. good good. well, I'm quite sure her choice is a wrong turning and if i were you i wont stop her. cause it's a nice mistake and she learns better from mistakes than from advice. Ask her to enjoy it!
2007-09-13 03:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by SlimShady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13 year old friend is about to get in serious trouble. Someone should tell her parents before it is too late.
2007-09-13 02:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
your 13yr old friend should be in school learning how NOT to
hang around with the likes of them, come on she would not
even know how to tie her shoe laces together if it hadnt been
for her mother
seems she is slow of the mark as well?
2007-09-13 03:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by menace2dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a phase and this kid has some serious issues. 13 is way too young to be doing another other than 2nd base if you ask me.
2007-09-13 02:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋