Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

ok so i just started college and it is different than high school there is this girl that i am starting to like and i wonder how could go and talk to her i mean i just go and starting to her because well she does not seem too interested it is a huge class(like a 100 or more ) students i mean i want a girlfriend badly give me some suggestions on how i can start a conversation with this girl or any girl in the class

2007-09-07 09:42:25 · 9 answers · asked by bell 4 in Singles & Dating

Confusion!!!???
ok, i have this HUMONGOUS crush on a guy and i told him...he always says he has to go when i asked him if he liked me 2! also in the hallways he looks at me really solemnly and kinda nervous...do you think he's just shy or is he like SCARED of me? also yesterday in Health class (we go to school together) he asked Josie if he was friends with me. (she is, of course but anyway,) why does he care? and why is he looking at me SO MUCH?!?!! we're in middle school, also, if that helps. 7th grade

2007-09-07 09:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by szweets 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now. Things seem to be going ok with a few bumps in the road along the way. However, lately, she has been saying I LOVE YOU but not with enthusiasm, including sometimes when she says it on the phone so low I can’t hear her and have to ask what she said. Recently, and only because it was something I said in conversation that brought this up, she said she is going to start working later on Wednesdays starting in 2 weeks and trying to work a few hours extra each day during the week for extra money. Again, she didn’t volunteer this info. Now I wouldn’t think anything of this being that we have talked about getting a place in 5months when her lease is up and we could use the extra cash to support ourselves. However, she has a history of cheating, including her ex hubby. And I still suspect she talks to her other ex she cheated on him with, but she denies it. Even though she has text him in front of me.

2007-09-07 09:34:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-07 09:30:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just started a new job, and this guy that works with me, works in another room, and when he passes by , he always looks in the room,(but I guess that might not really mean anything) and everytime he passes by he always come in and chit chats, and he'll ask me what I'm doing(even though there are two people in the room) and he'll sit in my desk, and look at my computer, and ask ME stuff about politics, and news..I mean it's very casual but he always asks me if I went to lunch yet, and today, me and another co -worker sit in the same room and while they were talking I started doing my own thing typing my other friend on the computer, and he stood behind me and kept hitting my chair...and I'm thinking why does he keep doing that, and then he asks me if I know of a good church, because he hasnt been to one...'s been herein the city for almost eight years ...I'm confused as to why he's playing dumb and being nosey.. Well anyhow what do you think

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plus he asked me where are the good restauraunts were YOU live?I'm thinking why?

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2007-09-07 09:27:12 · 19 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1 in Friends

Or ever have been? If you are, how many times have you been married? How long have you been married?

2007-09-07 09:26:13 · 21 answers · asked by King H 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Was it so awesome you keep refering back to it?

2007-09-07 09:26:07 · 37 answers · asked by Michelle 3 in Singles & Dating

okay...so u have a gf right? WHAT IS THAT SPECIAL THING/QUALITY THAT ATTRACTED YOU TO HER?!
Simple question....answer it! Please!

2007-09-07 09:25:16 · 1 answers · asked by Angelina X 1 in Singles & Dating

my aunt and i were talking about my relationship with my boyfriend..and she says out on no where..all men cheat..and that its just men married or not married they stilll cheat..she told me that as long as im being taken care off than it shouldnt matter and i shouldnt care about what hes doing as long as hes taking care of the household and not bringing his other personal life into our house as well as our realationship..i was so upset..because im thinking as her being a older (31) she would know better than to say anything like this.

2007-09-07 09:23:46 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He admitted it (after lying repeatedly that he did NOT take it). I have the ring back now, but feel hurt and betrayed. I thought he and I had a great relationship, now I don't know what to do to move forward. He is now telling his dad he wants to come live with us. His dad and I have only been married 8 months... I love this boy and I need advice!

2007-09-07 09:21:43 · 43 answers · asked by gato0923 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been separated for a couple of months now. she cries for him and asks when he is coming home and she wants us to live together, but I filed for divorce and i just dont think i want to be married anymore

2007-09-07 09:19:16 · 17 answers · asked by Christie B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And has threatened to hurt himself? When ever he gets depressed he stops taking his medications and he doesn't eat or sleep. I don't have any romantic feelings for him and I don't want to keep staying with him out of pitty. I told him once before that I don't want a relationship with him and he got so depressed he checked himself into a mental hospital.
How do I tell him nicely?

2007-09-07 09:13:49 · 16 answers · asked by Queen 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend asked me to marry him earlier this year, on Valentine day...very romantic. Second marriage for both. We're are having a simple wedding on the beach with our three combined children. Everything has pretty much been arrange and he has at times been very into the planning, very excited, telling me certain things that he wants. There have also been moments when he seems to tease me about "the-the-the-marriage", which I try to take in stride. He said something to me last night that didn't sound right. He said the marriage was more for me than for him. When I asked him to explain what he meant he said I wanted it more than him. Ok, I don't want to over analyze this or anything, but I also don't know that I want to marry someone that really isn't into it. Any thoughts?

2007-09-07 09:13:48 · 21 answers · asked by sweetnsexy46530 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I been dating for a year, he recently got engaged... but couple of days ago he run into his exgirlfriend. I'm sure he was polite and talked to her, but she asked him if she could go to our wedding. He didn't know what to answer cause he wanted to consult with me first. But, this girl cheated on him and wanted him back at one point several years later and i feelt that she really never let go because of the way my boyfriend talks about her. Anyways, to make it short. What should I say to him, if I said it's ok,... wouldn't it be odd anyways.. please advise.

2007-09-07 09:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by jennpor 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 09:11:11 · 17 answers · asked by sajmir 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think girls usualy stress more because ive never seen a guy cry for a girl. Am i wrong guys?

2007-09-07 09:03:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 09:00:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband walked out don't love me anymore, Altho my daughter is not his, and house is in his name, i still put lots of money into doing it up, he want me to buy him out, if only it was that easy.
He earns 500 a week i am a student nurse, i know i can stay in the house but what will happen if i can't buy him out, would they accept me pay half of mortgage, till ready to move.
As he can afford another home i can't, i don't see why i should striggle buy him out when he earns all this money. I know it should be half an half but i can't afford it yet, why should i be pushed, he walked couldn handle marriage why should i suffer.
Any advice please

2007-09-07 09:00:24 · 15 answers · asked by princes23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it is completley normal for guys to look at nudy pics and porn but it bothers me and makes me feel insecure, now he tells me that he loves the way i look, and i check the history on the internet to see what sites he has been on, he says that he hates when i check up on him but i dont like when he does it but it helps me if i know what it is that he is exactly looking at..i know its normal for guys to look and even if they have the hottest girl ever they will still look..any tips on how to make my insecurities go away or at least help them or any tips on anything that could help it not bother me?? PLease answer we have fought many times about this and i want it to go away but it seems whatever i do it starts bothering me again.

2007-09-07 08:59:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...I'm probably a stupid woman for sticking around. Here's the story: Several months ago my boyfriend and I were traveling in an rv. He was drinking at least an 18 pack every night. One night we were fighting and my daughters were in the front fo the rv and he and I were in the bathroom. Actually he had me trapped in the bathroom and was in my face screaming at me. I tried everything I could think of to get him to stop...I didn't want my daughters (15 and 6) hearing it. finally, desperate for quiet, I reached up and slapped him. His reaction was to grab me by my throat and slam my head against the wall. And, don't ask me why, I stayed with him. I'm even married to him now (2.5 months). There was a lot of emotional abuse before this and still I stayed. I wasn't going to marry him, but he persuaded me with even more guilt trips. And I fell for them...again. He's never touched me again, but when fighting he brings it up like it was MY fault. What are your thoughts?

2007-09-07 08:57:15 · 11 answers · asked by Carri 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i met dis italian guy on the a penpal site..he was nice all the other guys i've met on that site were jerks...he was really nice and cool..he went on holidays so we didnt talk 4 s'time .i keep seein his name every where..e'thing i see reminds me of him.last sunday we were going to church then we saw this italian ice cream shop..i didnt want to think of him so i opened my bible then i saw a card in my bible..when i turned the back of the card i saw his name...i feel really bad when im going out with guys,and when ever im with another guy...everthing i see and hear reminds me of him...how can i fall in love with a guy that i dont even know ...a guy i just met on the internet....i've been trying to forget him since agusust...but e'thing i see and hear reminds me of him...ever since i met him i've been seeing italy every where..and when ever somone talks to me they say something that reminds me of him.i feel like this is huntin me .am i in love with him.if not then what is happening 2 me

2007-09-07 08:56:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son said his friend feels better that his parents have agreed to remain married, but living separately rather getting a divorce. We had this discussion after I told him that we might be getting a divorce. My son said he likes that arrangement too. My kids are 9,11 and 15.

2007-09-07 08:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has SERIOUS anger problems. I cant just straight out say "I dont want to be with you anymore" because he will LITERALLY choke me until I pass out. [he's done it before] My boyfriend never pays any attention to me. He never does anything for me... and when i ask him to do things for me.. he gets pissed and acts like im interrupting his game of "world of warcraft". Or sometimes he'll say "oh I forgot". which i know he didnt forget.. he just wanted to keep playin that game.. But aside from that. My boyfriend has SEVERE anger problems. I seriously fear for my life at times. He's nearly put me in the hospital a time or 2. Given me swollen black eyes and just today.. he kneed me in the kidney and I nearly passed out it hurt so bad. He has lowered my self esteem and I am scared to say anything to him because I always think that he's going to hit me. I Love him with all my heart but its time for this crap to stop. How do I break up with him without him going crazy on me?

2007-09-07 08:54:19 · 86 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

(i was older than him).He returned back but 3 days later i found out it was because of sex mainly so i finished the whole story.Now,after almost 2 months, i still think of him sometimes, i'm better but i want to get him out of my brain for good.There are 2 other guys they are interested in me but i don't feel like this for nobody.I don't even go to my favourite club as i'm afraid he'll be there and ,even worse, with another girl.The worst of all is that i have to give exams next month,very important about my professional future and i can't focus.Before this story i was self confident and full of life.Now everything went back and i press myself to move on.When this wound will heal?

2007-09-07 08:54:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Wife and you were separated for almost a year because she was having an affair. You had a vasectomy during the separation. You managed to reconcile. Now wife is pregnant. What would you do?

2007-09-07 08:54:01 · 52 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my house is his home, he has no savings, no health ins, bad credit, and wants to move back in. I want to sell my house. do i send him out on the streets? do i let him live there untill and get back on his feet and , save money, I have covered his expences for o long time and tired of getting him out of dept. he has no money mangement skills whats-so-ever. I love him very much and i'm afraid he'll end up where he started, whitch put into rehab in the first place. He can't seem to cut the cord from mom. His dad died 17 months ago and feel responciable for him still. I need to clean my house out since i don't live there anymore, I just got married again. what do I do?

2007-09-07 08:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by Gracie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its about what u prefer in girls

smart or dumb
cute-sweet or SEXY-jerk
nice smile or big boobs
short or tall

and some random questions
1. would u go out with some1 with acne?
2.would u never go out with someone whos not popular
3.would u rather have a blonde,black or brunette hair?

2007-09-07 08:51:20 · 21 answers · asked by lol l 2 in Singles & Dating

The information I've read says it's a high quality cubic zirconia and it looks nice but I don' know what the long term benefits of having a diamond vs. a ziamond are...

2007-09-07 08:49:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My partner is a pipe welder. We are living on the road right now, but we're going back home in Dec. so that we can be close to family as I get farther along in my pregnancy. He told me he wants me to get a job out on the job site that he's working at 'till we go back home in Dec. My partner makes plenty of money to support the 2 of us right now but he says he would like to make a little extra money, I understand that, I understand him wanting to extra money, we do have a baby on the way, but I really don't want to get out & work on the construction site. My partner has talked to all of the bosses to try to get me on the site, they're supposed to be calling me next wk. I really don't want to work outside on a construction site, plus I like being at home & taking care of the house (I cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills, all the house work). How do I tell my partner I don't want that job? Plus I don't think that a pregnant woman should be out on a construction job site.

2007-09-07 08:48:11 · 27 answers · asked by Lulu 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont have sex w/ every random guy that wants to have sex with me, but if i meet a guy, and get to know him, and i want to have sex with him, and i do, does that make me slutty?? I think its okay, as long as you want it just as bad as the guy does, right?? As long as i use protection, and know who im sleeping w/, i dont think theres a problem with it. whats your opinion?

2007-09-07 08:42:20 · 42 answers · asked by sienna2008 2 in Singles & Dating